One of, if not THE most popular and common sexual fetishes is centered on cock control. Or orgasm control, if you want to be pedantic and honestly, same. Join Whore School, your favorite adult sex education podcast on February 22, 2026 as I, your host, Mistress Harper, delves into the wonderful world of cock control, featuring edging and gooning. You may be wondering what edging and gooning really is, and don’t worry, I’ll tell you all about it, along with some tips to get better at both!
Cock Control
I’m not gonna say that the Mistresses of Cock Control (dot com) are the originators of the cock control fetish, but we certainly did do a whole lot to popularize and move it into the mainstream, so you’re welcome for that. One of the flagship sites for the Enchantrix Empire, the Cock Control site brought orgasm control and the idea behind things like jerk off instructions to a broader audience and helped make male submission more mainstream.
Cock and Orgasm Control
Jerk off instructions and orgasm control have been around for a very, very long time. If you’ve ever listened to one of the episodes on Tantra, or read any of my writing about it, you know that actual Tantra is all about semen retention and thus, ta da, orgasm control. And Tantra is a very old religious practice. In fact, you can look at pretty much any ancient religious or spiritual text that tells you where and when and how to “spill your seed” to see orgasm control. Jerk off instructions, or JOI, is also not a new fetish or sexual kink. It’s been around for as long as people have been experiencing boners.
Edging and Gooning
Of the various fetishes we’ll be covering for Whore School, ‘gooning’ is arguably the newest, and most internet age inflected. Gooners, or people who goon, are masturbators who enjoy extreme masturbation without ejaculation or orgasm, for extended periods of time. Often a gooner can spend hours feeling aroused and masturbating to the edge of orgasm again and again. Edging is the practice of masturbation to the ‘edge’ of orgasm without actually experiencing the orgasm. They’re both techniques to extend or enhance masturbation.
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Cock Control: Edging and Gooning will air live on Sunday February 22, 2026 at 11 pm Eastern, and you can join the conversation! Hit the chatroom during the live broadcast to be part of the fun. After (or before) the live show join the Enchantrix Empire discord, or the Whore School discord server! We’re gonna ride this as far as we can and then we’ll improvise, adapt, and overcome. I’ll see you on Sunday, but in the meanwhile, let me know in the comments if you like cock control!
Cock Control Mistress Harper
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