WS 487 Cock Control, Edging, and Gooning

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WS 487 cock Control, Edging, and Gooning

 

For the February 22, 2026 episode of Whore School, Ms Harper talked about Cock Control and Orgasm Control! Let’s be clear, cock and orgasm control have been around a very long time. The nuances, however, are a little bit newer. The kink and fetish activities called ‘Edging’ and ‘Gooning’ are much newer! Still fun, though. Listen and learn why you may find edging, gooning, and orgasm control worthwhile to learn.

 

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You know, and I know, that Whore School is adult sex education. And because Whore School is adult sex and educational, you also know that if you want to join the live chat, you need to head to Community Kink. Because the chat room’s open, y’all.

Come hang out with me. Whoreschool.net is the blog that goes along with the podcast. You can look at that and find out what the topic du jour happens to be.

For example, if you looked at Whoreschool.net, you would see that the top post right now is all about gooning and edging and cock control. Yeah, that’s the good shit. Now, I’m not really expecting a whole big crowd tonight, because there’s a blizzard.

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I’ve got Six Pack and Patty have popped in, though. Apparently, there’s cold weather across the nation tonight. Nor’easter.

Snowing fucking everywhere. And also, it’s not going to get all the way down to freezing where I am, but it is going to get fucking cold. And so my weather app tells me that there’s going to be tree pollen.

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Guess how much I like tree pollen? I do not. What am I allergic to? The usual. You know, cedar.

Hang on. Oh, my God. I can tell that the weather blew through earlier today, because right around three o’clock in the afternoon, I felt it.

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So good. By good, I mean it’s not good at all, and we hate it. Sissy Addie has joined us in here tonight.

Yay. Hello, pretty people. To you, too.

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Patty says, I’ve been having a cold. Oh, girl, wear a mask when you’re in public, because people are full of cooties. Make sure you’re up to date on all of your vaccinations and etc.

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And wear a mask when you’re around people, because they’re nasty. Apparently tonight, the low is supposed to be 35, but that’s OK, because by Wednesday, we have a high. No, wait.

Wednesday, the low will be 63 degrees Fahrenheit and the high will be 85. This is this fine. This.

Yeah, that’s normal, right? Sure. That’s that’s how that’s how this shit works, obviously. God.

OK, I’m not going to launch into an impromptu discussion about climate science, but let me just say this is bullshit. It’s not supposed to be this hot in fucking February. It was in the 80s in December, so that is not normal.

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Giseline the Bimbo Slut has joined us as well as Matt. Howdy, howdy, y’all. We’re going to talk about cock control tonight, not the weather, despite the fact that I reserve the right to bitch about tree fucking pollen, fucking pollen.

It’s gross, gross, gross pollen. Very high for tree pollen, moderate for grass pollen. There’s no ragweed.

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Yeah, sure. Thanks, buddy. That’s that’s good.

It’s useful. Love that. So what’s cock control? Fun is what cock control is.

Cock control is a ton of fun. And anybody who tries to tell you that cock control is no fun is a fuddy duddy. Like how I slid that one in there.

Just a fuddy duddy. Screw them anyways. So, look, cock control is awesome and everyone should participate in it, especially by letting me be the one in charge.

Like that, that’s just, that’s just logic. It’s what that is. Just fucking logic.

Honestly, at this point, um, if you don’t know what cock control is, I don’t know how to explain it. Patty left. Bye.

Jizzy says everything’s better with Miss Harper in charge. It’s true. Oh, Patty was leaving to go get over a cold.

See, I was going to tell you, Maya patented how to feel better drink, but you know, that’s fine. No. What’s a cock control? Is that a farm term? No, no, no.

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Six pack wants me to break our terms of service for both Podbean and Spreaker and our company terms of service. Wow. Six packs trying to get me fired.

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He wanted me to give you a free sample live on the air. Nah. Oh, Jizzy has to go night, night, good night, Jizzy.

Six pack said every guy in the world wants that. I know it’s because y’all motherfuckers are cheap. Y’all are cheap and disrespectful.

They’re like, no. Hmm. Sure.

Okay, buddy. So cock control actually. So hey, Callie joined us in here.

Hi girl. Hi. So cock control got started.

Um, basically a really fucking long time ago, because as was mentioned, it is of course, jerk off instructions, which is a very, very old set of kinks and fetishes. Um, for submissive males being told how to touch your dick is hot for an awful lot of men guys get off on that because they like it’s a, they’re very visual. They want to see and be seen.

Uh, they like the attention and oftentimes men do not get positive, intimate attention unless it is sexual and having somebody pay that much attention to your dick feeds a whole lot of what men are missing out in, in society, in our communities. Right. So jerk off instructions.

Oh, it pushes so many buttons. It really does. Hey, Tina has joined us in the chat room as well.

What’s up, homie and Kylie. Okay. I take it back.

Apparently we are expecting a bunch of people tonight. That’s a good crowd. That’s a good crowd.

Hi y’all. Hi. So a lot of men are starved for emotional intimacy.

They’re also starved for physical intimacy. The, uh, so-called loneliness epidemic. Look, the people who complained most loudly about the loneliness epidemic are exactly the kind of people who deserve to be motherfucking lonely.

Kylie said my problem with jerk off instructions is that I always have pieces left off. You’re not supposed to pull that hard. All right.

So men, dudes, fellas, jerk off instructions and being instructed on how to touch your dick. Right. It just, it, it just feels right for a lot of guys.

And even if you’re not super duper submissive, sometimes letting somebody else be in charge for a minute is fucking fun. Like it’s just hot. It doesn’t have to be a DS power dynamic.

It can just be okay. Play with my dick. I have known many fairly dominant straight dudes who really, really enjoyed letting their girlfriends play with their cock.

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And whether that’s actually trying to give him a hand job or just playing with it. Look, we don’t have a dick. Okay.

I didn’t grow up with a penis. I didn’t grow up being able to touch that whenever I fucking well felt like it. So if you give me the opportunity, I’m going to use it like a joystick.

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I’m going to put my thumb on the tip and tap on it. Like I’m shooting a gun, you know, like arcade games. Cause it’s there.

That’s just, that’s just where my brain goes with it. If you get me a penis and let me play with it, I’m going to play with it. What says top score.

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And he said, this sounds like fun activities to do with a dick. See, it doesn’t have to be about the dominance and submission shit. Okay.

That’s extra. That’s just fun on top. Because trust me, if we’re still also doing DS, I’m going to do that anyway.

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Only now I’m going to do it, you know, in a dominant way. It’s funny. Anyways, seriously, if you, if you’ve never used a dick like a joystick and made pew, pew noises, have you, have you really ever actually played with a dick? Come on.

If you happen to have a dick, try it. You’ll like it. And he says, now I’m wondering how you play arcade dominantly.

Well, you got to like get a good grip on it, right? You’re going to lean over it real heavy. Okay. And so with one hand, you’re holding onto the joystick and the other hand, you got to, you got to kind of grip like the hip or the side and like, and then like you’re playing and you’re like, motherfucker.

Shoot. No, I’m going to win. I’m going to win.

Right. You got to yell about it. And like, no, it’s not how you would do it.

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Jimmy owns me says space invaders. How is it people who played fighting games got real good with their joysticks? Okay. I can be serious about this.

One of our flagship websites, we have a bunch, but one of them is cock control.com. And if you haven’t been to cock control.com, why, why not? Why haven’t you been to cock control.com? Obviously, if you try to go to that website and it pulls up instead, uh, if it redirects or something that looks funny about it. Yeah. You should make use of internet security programs that exist that allow you to mask your IP because you live in one of the 19 or 20.

I don’t know a shit ton of States nowadays that have a banned porn. Good job guys. You’re elected representatives.

I mean, you don’t get to see the full glory of our websites, but if that happens, you can look at it. Tina Aaron says, and country. Yeah.

There’s some countries that have done it too, because they’re shits, but, and also our country is doing some shit, but we’re talking about cock control. Um, message me and I’ll tell you what you need to do to see the porn because porn should be a goddamn, it’s a free speech issue. You, you have the right to look at like, honestly, our porn’s not even that gross.

Like our essays are about cock control and jerk off instructions and how much fun they are. That barely counts as smut. That’s, that’s, that’s nothing.

Come on. Anyways, that doesn’t count is what I’m saying. So go to cock control.com. Use what you need to use in order to see the whole site because there’s a lot on there.

There’s a blog on cock control. Did you know that there is the blog for cock control is a cock control.com slash the daily cock where we don’t hide shit. You do have to say that.

Yes, I agree that I am over 18 and I have the legal right to look at this, but you pop that on there and you can see, let’s see here. Announcing the smallest penis in the empire contest. Meet mistress Devon.

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She’s brand new. Femdom February fun. So the deals and stuff for February.

February’s mistress of the month is Miss Sasha. We’re doing calls and balls for football, but that’s all over now. Sucks to be you, but yeah, come on.

There’s also tons of essays. There’s all, all of the bios from all of the ladies are on there. There’s a bunch on there.

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What says I get my JOI from Ikea. I’m going to do it all myself. Kylie said, we’re all going to be using the old serious catalogs to jerk off again.

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I know an awful lot of people who are like, yeah, my first, my first porn was from the Sears catalog. Apparently you would, you, you would, they would look at the lingerie section, which explains a little bit because I’ve seen some of those like the vintage Sears catalog lingerie ads. Yeah.

I don’t, I mean, I don’t want to say that somebody else’s personal favorite sort of erotica ever is not my taste there. That’s, I’m sure it’s nice. And if it works for you, that’s good.

I like La Perla and Agent Provocateur, which is a very different vibe from the Sears catalog. Kylie says, I did a book cover this year at Christmas time based on the Sears Christmas wishlist catalog. I was so proud.

That is badass. That’s fucking awesome. But it was full of underwear and sexy dresses.

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Okay. So cock control has been around for fucking forever. As long as people have had a penis, they’ve been interested in letting somebody else tell them what to do with it.

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I’m sorry. It’s just human fricking nature. It’s part of sexuality to say, Hey, you want to see what I’ve got? I’ll show you what I’ve got.

If you show me what you’ve got, Hey, and then you take turns. Like that’s, that’s just human nature. Where it gets real interesting is with edging.

Edging is a very modern fetish. It has not been around fucking forever. So I’m going to look this up.

Hang on. Edging. Sacks.

I’m just going to put that in there. Hey, Wikipedia has an article about it. Edging sometimes referred to as gooning or surfing.

I’m sorry. Surfing, surfing the edge. Oh God.

So the Wikipedia article has absolutely no information about when this became common, but it does say the terms edging and gooning have been adopted by generation Z and older gen alpha as brain rot terminology, gaining popularity on TikTok. In internet slang, gooner is often used to refer to pleasure seekers and porn performers, as well as extreme excitement or obsession in non-sexual contexts. I want you to pay attention to all of that.

Okay. Gen Z and gen alpha. All right.

So gen Z is now old enough to call me. If that doesn’t make you feel old, you’re part of gen Z. Gen Z is now old enough to call me, by and large. They’re in their twenties now, folks.

Sorry, but they are. It’s 2026. Gen alpha is definitely old enough to call.

So Zaddy says not all gen Z, right? I mean, some of them might be on the very, very edge, but yeah. Gen Z is older than you think. Millennials are in their forties.

Gen X, fifties, sixties. I want to make y’all feel old. That was a cat knocking over furniture.

Thank you. Zaddy said, I think gen Z is 1996 to 2010. It’s 2026.

So some of gen Z might be too young, but most of them, most of them are old enough to call me. Sorry. I’m just going to break your heart right there.

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Make you feel old. So something that is gen Z slang, gen alpha slang, is new. Okay.

That’s new. That’s new. Sexual fetishes that often arose and got very, very popular because of the internet.

Zaddy says, I’m fine with it. I’m the youngest millennial. You’re as young as you feel in your heart.

So edging is a sexual practice that involves masturbating almost to orgasm. You were on the edge of orgasm and the edge of that final plateau, release, and refractory period. You get right there and then you stop.

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And honestly, so I started with this company in 2011. We will not discuss how long ago that was. Time is a mystery and illusion.

And I refuse to acknowledge it. So I started a while ago. When I did, they were like, have you ever heard of edging? And I was like, yes, I have.

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It’s fairly new. Right. And they were like, well, kind of, because this company, LDW, Enchantrix Empire, us, kind of helped popularize it.

Not on TikTok, obviously. DBT sub has joined us in here. Hey, what’s up, homies? So we didn’t necessarily popularize it on TikTok or make it into modern slang, but the sexual practice, as soon as people were like, hey, check this out, we basically went, yeah, that’s cock control.

That’s orgasm control. We know exactly what this is. We ran with it.

So cock control and orgasm control and edging are all the same fucking thing. It involves you becoming aware enough of your body’s response to sex and sexuality and arousal that you can deliberately stop yourself from reaching orgasm. You can get very, very close without finishing yourself.

There’s a whole bunch of reasons why you would want to do this. Like there’s, there’s many, many reasons why you may want to not come. And DBT sub has left and joined, wait, with two Bs this time.

How did you do that? Oh, the chat room’s being fuckity tonight. Okay. I see you, stupid chat room.

It’s JavaScript. Okay. So first, masturbation and not orgasming, but instead enjoying the build up.

So I mentioned a few terms when I was talking about edging just a couple of minutes ago. The arousal stage, there’s a plateau. If you graph out arousal over across time, right? It goes up and up and up and up and up and up and up.

And then it hits a plateau and it stays at a plateau for a little while. And then it sharply jumps straight up and then straight down. That’s the orgasm.

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And the goal of edging is to get as close to that sudden sharp spike of orgasm for pleasure without actually spiking so that you can be as close, like writing right there, right at the moment of so close to make it last as long as possible, because it feels really, really good. Now, if you are a straight man who is interested in having sex with women in a way that will provide immense amounts of sexual pleasure to women, you will want to stay on that edge so that you are not one of those little fuckers who comes in two minutes flat. Right? Nobody likes that, least of all a woman.

C6Pac says the goal of edging is to keep collars on the line for as long as possible. No, that’s just a happy coincidence. The goal of edging is to prolong your pleasure as long as possible, or as long as your credit card still charges.

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Look, I’m a pro. I do this for money. I don’t do it for fucking free.

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Been there, done that. Ain’t going to happen. But also, I do actually want you to have good sex.

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Like, I have professional pride. I’m really good at edging, or at least edging you, provided you know what it feels like when you’re just about to cum so that you can stop before you cum. If you are unaware, if you’re like, oh, I have no idea what my physiological responses are right before I orgasm.

Oh, okay. Well, that’s going to be tricky because I can’t tell across a phone whether or not you’re about to cum, especially if you’re one of the guys who go silent. Don’t go silent on me.

I want to hear you for several reasons. One, so I can tell what’s going on. And two, I like it.

I like hearing you make noise. I enjoy that. That’s fun for me.

I don’t want you to be quiet. And I want to use the noises that you make in order to tweak what I’m doing to make it better for both of us. The more I can make you scream and moan and whimper and make all those sexy sounds, the happier I am.

I fucking love that. Like, yes, I want you noisy. Anyways, guys who learn how to edge are better lovers.

They have better sex. They last longer in bed. They often have larger loads.

I don’t know if that matters to you or not. Some guys, it’s very important. Edging will definitely give you bigger loads, especially if you combine that with a little prostate stimulation.

Like, my goodness, you will be so wet. It’s awesome. Tina says, trying to make girly noise as a sissy.

Girl, just make whatever noise comes out. I have heard girls make the most amazing grunting sounds as they come. Love that.

Like, I don’t care what the sound is. I just want to provoke a sound out of you. I had a girlfriend one time who every time she came, she would go, uh, this deep, guttural grunt.

It was awesome. I was like, what was that? She’s like, I don’t know. I can’t stop.

I was like, no, no, no, no, no. Don’t stop. I just want to make sure I didn’t hurt you.

What I was doing and that you were still having fun. She was huge. She loved it.

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But yeah, she would grunt. So don’t even worry about, oh, do I sound girly enough? Are you a girl? Are you making a noise? Did you sound girly enough? You sound fine. I’ve heard men grunt.

I’ve heard men go, uh, like big, strong, powerful alpha males making the best overwhelmed high pitched moans. Uh, love that. I love the reaction.

Addie says my moans have always been girly for some reason, even regular ones like while stretching. Hell yes. Good.

Just let the sound out. Just open your mouth and let whatever is coming out. Come out.

Yes. Okay. Gooning.

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Gooning is even newer. Addie says my orgasms are rather silent. Honestly, my orgasms are completely silent.

I don’t make noise. About the best you might hear from me if I orgasm is like, I breathe a little louder, which I don’t know. Is that, does that make me a hypocrite? It’s probably because if I do push myself to make noise while coming, I scream and that’s rude.

The walls here are not as thick as I would like them to be. And, um, I don’t want to advertise to the upstairs neighbors when I’m having fun. It’s bad enough.

I can hear them. Yeah. So I’m, I’m quiet because otherwise I am fucking noisy.

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And I’ve, I’ve had roommates in the past who are also screamers. And so I’m like, Oh yeah, that’s disruptive. Kali says as a sub wearing a gag is useful for keeping the noise down.

Yeah. A pillow on your face. Shut up.

No. In general, I want to hear the sounds. Um, if you have to be quiet because like, you know, somebody’s home.

All right. Cool. Boo.

But all right. I completely understand. Like, yeah, I got you.

All right. Gooning. Gooning’s even newer.

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Then edging is, and he says, I always felt that screaming is forced, but just scream naturally. It isn’t a porn thing. No, it’s, um, if, if I relax and like vocalize as I orgasm.

So like, I was just kind of, ah, you know, as I’m coming, Oh, it comes out loud. Yeah. Not all porn screaming is fake.

A bunch of it is because it’s a performance. It’s a performance. Um, the vast majority of mainstream porn.

Um, yeah. Later six pack. Um, yeah, it’s a performance.

It’s not necessarily inherently legit. Mont said I’ve trained myself to giggle when I orgasm. I’m fun.

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I love the guys who giggle. Oh my God. It’s so good.

Like the guys who come and then they’re like, he just laugh about it. Fuck. Yes.

Ride those endorphins. I love that. Hell yeah.

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Turn into a little giggle monster. It’s so cute. Fucking adore it.

I’m not even being like sarcastic at all. No, I like it when you giggle. It’s so good.

Yes. It means you were having fun. Good.

Yes. More Kelly said I’ve had some giggles after a good flogging. Hell yeah.

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Cause endorphins, they feel good. And then you’re like giddy, a little giggly. All right.

Gooning. Gooning is newer. And honestly, gooning probably arose, I’m going to say 2018 because I do not remember it being around a whole lot before then.

So 2018, I think I first ran into somebody was like, have you ever had a goon? And I was like, what? Because my exposure to that word before then was hockey. There’s a position in hockey called the goon and the goon’s job is to beat the shit out of the other team. Like that was, that was where I knew the word goon from.

And somebody asked me if I knew how to goon. And I was like, technically yes. But what do you mean when you say goon? Cause I get the impression you’re not talking about hockey.

Right. And goon before that, of course meant like a thug or a henchman. Right.

So a goon who would come along and be like, the boss says that you haven’t been paying your projection monies, you know, and tries to beat you up. So Kelly said I was really disappointed when I found out gooning had nothing to do with the goonies. There’s a movie called goon that I really love.

I thought it was really good. It’s a hockey movie. Okay.

It’s a hockey movie. So gooning as in, it’s because a goon is generally seen as, you know, the henchman, the thug, he’s not the boss. He’s not the smartest.

He’s a little stupid. Right. He’s been hit in the head a few times and he’s not all present.

He’s a bit of a dumb ass. Right. Goon.

Tina said, I just saw a video where an ex porn star told the presenter that they can use Gaviscon, a heartburn and indigestion drugs to fake a load if the actor doesn’t come. Yeah. There’s a bunch of things that they can use to fake a load of cum.

I knew somebody who did sex work and he would have a tube of lotion down next to his hip, hidden from the camera. And so he would just squeeze it really hard to make it spurt on his own chest. And then he could rub it in and be like, Oh, I’m filthy.

It was lotion. It’s fucking funny. So every time I see porn, there’s always that thought in my head of it’s lotion.

It might not be. It’s probably Gaviscon because it’s a little bit better to get in somebody’s eyes than lotion is. Lotion would burn like a bitch.

Anyways. So a goon is generally seen as not as smart. And so to become a goon or for someone to call you a goon, they’re saying you’re an idiot.

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You fucking goon. Right? And so in the ways of slang and the youths these days, a person who’s a goon sexually, it’s somebody who is just like a simp, right? A simpleton, simp. They are sexually addled.

Their sexual desires have rendered them stupid. It is taken like 20 IQ points off the top. And now they’re, they dumb.

They, you know, they’ve masturbated so long and so hard that now they’re just, yeah, brain fried. They’re done. So that’s where goon and gooning first entered the sexual lexicon was as an insult.

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Oh, Tina says the presenter who’s in a urologist or sexologist said that someone put paint and it hurt the pussy or penis. Yikes. Yeah.

No, please do not put paint or the penis. That would just hurt everything. Don’t, don’t play with paint.

My elderly dog is just trying to shove me off the couch. She was like, no, I want this spot now. Thank you old lady.

Yeah. You needed to cuddle. Okay.

Fun said finger painting. And he said simp comes from simpleton. Yeah, it does.

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Or it did. Uh huh. Okay.

So it started as an insult for people who are addled by sex. I’m not saying that being addled by sex is a bad thing. I think it’s pretty awesome.

Come on. You should be addled by sex. Should be like, digmatized.

Yes. But inevitably, some of the people who are, uh, oversexed, masturbatory, aficionados, uh, horndogs looked at that and said, oh, gooning, huh? That sounds aspirational. And they made it into something that they should try to achieve.

To masturbate for so long that your brain dribbles out your ears. That’s what sexual gooning is. To masturbate for many hours, probably longer than you really should be.

So any erection lasting four hours or longer is probably not the best thing for your dick. You have to let those tissues relax sometime, but some people will attempt to masturbate for eight hours. Okay.

You’re going to rub all the skin off, but you know, it’s your dick. You can treat it like that. If you really want to, I wouldn’t recommend it personally, but you know, it’ll grow back.

Um, maybe the point of the reason for the four hour, you know, if you, if you take like Viagra and it says, if you have an erection lasting four hours or longer, go to the ER. It’s because of the nature of your blood. Blood that isn’t moving and flowing through your veins and constantly being recirculated tends to clot.

And a blood clot in a place where a blood clot should not be, it’s bad for you. Don’t, don’t do that. That’s bad.

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A blood clot in your dick. And he says, I remember years ago, there was a story running around about a guy who jerked off for like 16 hours straight and unalived. Um, I don’t know if it would actually kill you or not.

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I think it might result in you being a little bit of a Ken doll. You might lose the penis. If blood clots get loose and they start floating through your body, you could have a stroke, or it could give you an embolism, pulmonary or cardiac.

And it’s bad. Don’t do that. Try to take breaks, please.

And thank you. So people who enjoy gooning, I would say every four hours, stop, let your dick relax from what you’ve done to it. And then you can go back to it, but give it a break.

Give it like 30 minutes, an hour to, um, recover from the massive amounts of abuse that you’ve done to it. Just in case, especially if you’ve taken Viagra or Cialis, which are the name brands for two of the major, um, boner pills. And if you have any form of heart disease, don’t take those because they fuck with your blood pressure.

And that’s bad. I like spooning more than gooning. I mean, masturbation is fun.

Yes. Edging, tons of fun. I like edging that involves, uh, masturbating, uh, climbing up, getting very, very close to the backing away off so that your arousal kind of drops back down again.

And then you build back up back to another edge. And you do that three or four times. And then you come, whether that’s a ruined orgasm where you take your hand off and you’re just kind of helplessly squirt everywhere or a full orgasm where you stroke yourself through it.

It’s a ton of fun. You could also try to get as close to orgasm as possible and stay that way as long as possible without going over. It’s also fun.

Gooners, as best I can tell, they’re not worried about whether or not they’re edging. And in fact, they’re just masturbating. But as far as I can tell, they don’t ever get as, they’re not playing with the edge.

They’re not getting right up on the edge. Of an orgasm and then backing off and then coming back again and then backing off. They’re not doing that.

They’re just staying at a singular constant level of arousal often while watching lots and lots of porn without orgasming and without ever backing off. They just kind of reach like this baseline level of turned on and horny and they stay that way, which can be an awful lot of fun. For the people who enjoy gooning, yes, that sounds wonderful.

Because you can just sit there and then you maintain. Just horny for hours. For the people who are into that, great, do it.

That sounds fun. Just take a break every four hours. Let your dick recover.

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Oh, and make sure to use plenty of lube because I’m not kidding about the chafing. Maud said edging should be called a cliffhanger. Edging.

I like surfing. Surfing sounds hilarious too. You’re gonna edge.

You’re gonna surf. You can edge and you can goon during partnered sex. Absolutely.

You can do it alone during masturbation. Yep, both. And in fact, doing it during masturbation can make it so that you can last longer during partnered sex.

So for men, particularly, for millions, for men who have premature ejaculation, if you come too fast, you should practice edging because it builds the body awareness of what it feels like when you’re about to cum. Some guys are like, oh, I see a pretty woman. Oh, and then they’re done.

That’s disappointing. That’s terrible, right? Boo. Demi owns me and says riding that wave of pleasure.

Hell yes. If you can learn through slow, low stimulation, because if you’re a premature ejaculator, you want to back all the way off on the stimulation because too much, you’re gonna cum. So low stimulation, slow and gentle masturbation so that you can figure out when you’re getting, like, recognize the feeling in your body when you’re about to cum and stop.

You can learn to control the orgasm and only cum when you’re ready, when you want to cum, when you’re finished and you’re like, okay, now I’m gonna cum. I’ve been at this for five hours. It’s time for me to finish, right? Can you get your spot? There you go.

Good girl. Old dogs, man. Old dogs.

In April, she’ll be 19. She’s old. She’s my old lady.

Come on, get in. Thank you. And then that one was asshole.

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He’s only 10. He’ll be 11 in the summer. So if you have premature ejaculation, learning how to edge can help you.

It can help you learn to control and not embarrass yourself. I want you to have good sex. I want you to have really good pleasure.

And if you’re a guy who has never lasted longer than two minutes, oh, we can get that up. Absolutely. I can get you easy.

We’re going to set our goals low and reasonable. We’re going to celebrate when we reach our very reasonable goals. But yeah, orgasm control.

I can teach you how not to cum. I can also teach you to cum on command because it’s all about the body awareness and the biofeedback involved in what does it feel like when you’re about to cum? Once you know what that feels like, in the same way that people with premature ejaculation just cum, oftentimes with little to no stimulation ahead of time. It’s a mental thing and it’s often connected to anxiety, which if you will recall from the erotic humiliation discussion, fight, flight, freeze or fawn and fuck.

And the fact that in your mind, your mind can’t tell the difference between something that’s actually dangerous and something that’s just in your head. Well, we can use that and put something that’s just in your head so that you can cum like that just instantly. Kylie says the key to delaying cumming during sex is to be on your phone the whole time.

Some of the people who have premature ejaculation make it worse for themselves by trying to watch porn while having sex. Some men are stupid. Not to put too fine a point on it.

Some dudes are real dumb. Just real dumb. Don’t fucking do that.

He says why though? There’s so many different reasons why. They’re too used to TikTok or on their phone all the time. They need the constant stimulation of content on a screen.

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They’re addicted to porn. They’re addicted to extreme porn so that simply having sex with somebody isn’t stimulating enough for them. Some men are just real dumb.

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It’s just like, oh, what’s a really great way to completely sabotage my sex life? Oh, let’s do that. Okay. Maybe don’t do that though.

Mod says ego. Stupid. They’re not thinking.

They’re thinking with, oh, this feels good and then continually chasing, how do I make this feel better? Oh, I know. I’ll add something. I’ll add more.

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So you start off watching fairly vanilla porn and pretty soon you’re watching the extreme stuff and then even that’s not good enough anymore. Now you’re like, well, I no longer am capable of finding my wife attractive because she won’t let me do all the dirty stuff that porn stars are doing because you’re stupid. Addie says, are they struggling with premature ejaculation or with arousal? Some of them, both.

Premature ejaculation doesn’t really have a whole lot to do with arousal. Sometimes premature ejaculation is too much arousal. Sometimes people who have premature ejaculation, there’s no arousal.

They just come from nothing. They think, Ooh, I’m going to get to have sex. And there they go.

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There’s no buildup. They just go. She’s like wild.

Yeah. That’s why some people with premature ejaculation, they do have to take medication to help with that. Sometimes it’s in their head.

It’s a mental thing. Sometimes it is a physical response. There’s something that has gone really, really weird with their hormones or with their dick.

We’re just going to step in and we’re going to give you some drugs to calm that down because what the fuck are you doing, dude? Oftentimes there’s a strong mental capacity that affects premature ejaculation. You can think your way into it. You can also think your way out of it.

And honestly, all of that, like thinking your way into and out of is what cock control and orgasm control is. It’s learning your biological, like your body’s cues for arousal and for orgasm in particular. It is possible to come on command with very little buildup.

Now, it takes a while to teach you to do that. And it is a learned response. And basically it starts with, okay, you’re going to masturbate.

As soon as you start to feel yourself like you’re on the edge and you’re ready to come, let me know. I’m going to give you a countdown and we’re going to use behavior chaining so that orgasm becomes connected to me saying, okay, now come. And if we do that consistently enough over time, we can work towards making it so that you can’t come without hearing, okay, now you can come.

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Okay. It’s the final countdown. Countdowns can help, you know, three, two, one now.

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And the consistency of every time that you want to have an orgasm, you have to hear like the countdown, you have to hear the, okay, now the command to. And if you make that, especially if you’re submissive, if you make it so that you cannot come without hearing that, right, by every time you masturbate, if you don’t hear somebody tell you that you can come, don’t. Instead you edge or you goon for a little bit and then you can, you know, contact a mistress and be like, okay, tell me I can come please.

So that you can finally finish. But so yes, you can learn to come on command and you can learn to come with very little buildup. You can learn to come after a whole lot of buildup.

It’s orgasm control. Control is the key part of that. It’s cock control.

It’s all about the control and it’s fun. So we are looking for the smallest penis in the empire. Fun segue, right? We’re looking for a little bitty dick.

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We’re looking for a little bitty fella because I think it’s going to be awesome. There you go. Have a link.

We have a phonesexassignments.com product. That’s your ticket. The smallest penis in the empire.

Go over there and buy that. We’re looking for the smallest penis in the empire. You can win prizes, short prizes, sessions with the participating ladies.

But your main thing that you get when you participate in the smallest penis in the empire is you get to show us your dick. Please remember that because of the way the internet is structured nowadays, you can’t just send your dick to anybody. We have to be able to verify that you are old enough to send us your penis, which means you have to either do it on a call with me.

Okay, I’ll look at your dick. Sure. You can email it to me while we’re on a call.

You can do a discord session and show it to me. Cool. I’ll look at your dick.

This one, 10 different ladies are going to look at your penis. You can’t beat that. For $30, the head ladies are going to look at your dick and rate it based on size.

I’m giving extra points for costumes. I want to see you put a costume on your tiny penis. It’s going to be like a thumb with a tiny little wig.

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Even if you’ve got a big dick, you can still dress it up. When you buy the assignment, you will be given the email address that we’re using so that you just send three different pictures of your dick. That’s so that all 10 of us can look at it.

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There’s also questions for you to answer about your dick. Honestly, it’s going to be a whole lot of fun, so definitely participate in that. You have until March 20th to get your entries into us so that we can judge your dick.

Then we’ll be announcing it on March 27th on the Femdom Fridays podcast. Mont said like a frightened turtle going back in its shell. Participate, please, in the smallest penis in the empire contest because it’s awesome.

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This is Whore School adult sex education. I hope you learned something. If you didn’t, it wasn’t my fault.

Thank you guys for listening. Whore School will be back again next week. I forget what I’m talking about.

I’ll update the blog. You’ll find out. Thank you all for listening tonight and I will see you again.

Please remember, make sure you’re up to date on your vaccinations, wear a mask when you’re around people you’re not living with because people are gross, and wash your ass. Good night.

 

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