WS 494 Orgasm Control

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WS 494 Orgasm Control

 

For the April 12, 2026 live podcast on Orgasm Control, Ms Harper began with an explanation of how to keep yourself safer in large adult oriented servers on Discord: treat every link as suspicious! There are bad actors everywhere, so be cautious and careful about clicking links in large servers that may or may not be well moderated. The main thrust of the Adult Sex Education podcast, however, was all about cock control, guided masturbation, and orgasm control. Listen and learn why controlling your orgasm can be beneficial for those who suffer from erectile dysfunction as well as for those who’d like to win the Stroke-A-Thon! We were joined by Ms Hadley, this month’s Mistress of the Month, and Ms Bianca as well!

 

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You know what? I love my stinger. I really do. It’s a good sound.

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Like, it’s a great noise, right? Like, boing! It just tells you. Whore School’s on. It’s class time.

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You here? Are you present? Are you ready? You ready for this? You ain’t ready for this. None of you are ready for this. You can’t handle the whore.

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I don’t even know at this point. Who? What? Where? What? What’s happening? I don’t know. Do you know? I don’t know.

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Whore School is adult sex education. Um, I try to teach you things. You know, I try to bring you quality educational stuff.

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Patty has joined us in the chat room. She said, it’s been so long since I was able to hear the stinger. You missed it, didn’t you? You missed the stinger.

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The stinger is your friend. So, for those of you who do not know, Whore School has moved to Discord. If you’re in the Enchantrix Empire Discord server, it’s super duper easy, just come join the Enchantrix Radio voice channel.

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There you go. Patty wants somebody to clip me saying, You can’t handle the whore. But it’s true, you can’t.

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Discord.gg slash Enchantrix Empire. That’s how you join us now. Everything’s all in one place.

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You join the Enchantrix Radio voice channel, and voila! The chat’s right there. I’m sneezing today because it’s been raining all day long. And every time it rains, it makes the mold act up.

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And guess what I’m allergic to? Fucking mold. Patty says, join Discord, bitches, it’s amazing. Yes, it is.

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Discord is the best. It’s got this built-in automod, though, which is great, because I love that. Yes, please, automatically moderate things.

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But it has a list of no-no words that you’re not supposed to say. And whore is one of them, so every single time any of you types the name of my podcast anywhere in the server, it notifies me. Little butthead.

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Automod bullshit. Thanks, Miss Bianca. Miss Bianca has joined us in here.

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Patty is here. Miss Becky’s impotent sissy slut, Mary Faye, is in here. Addie is in here.

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Kali the sweet girl. Because I changed your username. I’m funny.

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And Jizzhead are all here. Let me know if you want me to change that back, Kali. Goddammit, would you guys? Every time they say it, it pops in here.

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The automod’s like, hey, somebody said whore. It has to be two words. If it’s all one word run together, it doesn’t show up.

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Aw, Kali says, I didn’t get pranked, I got complimented. Patty said, maybe you shouldn’t have told us that. Oh, it triggers off of all of the cuss words.

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So, basically, it’s like somebody who’s like, they swore. Somebody said a dirty word. Addie said, wait, whore is a no-no word? Yeah, whore, slut, cunt, fuck, shit, damn, bitch.

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All of those. We get notified about all of them. It’s really fucking funny.

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Patty’s like, whoops, I did it like three times. Uh-huh, y’all are butts. We have a moderator channel where I make the automod say it.

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Addie said it three times, thanks. Patty’s got two in here so far. Maybe damn isn’t a no-no word.

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But some nights, like, come is a no-no word. So, when FemmeFemmeFraise was doing, um, the come. Oh, that’s thunder.

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Oh, I heard that through my headphones. Damn, that’s loud. When, um, C-U-M, Bianca could hear the thunder.

Oh, great. Well, if I lose power, sorry. I hope I don’t.

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I shouldn’t. I’m in a good place. Um, yeah, so when FemmeFemmeFraise was doing the come play episode, there were so many alerts.

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It was like, oh, they’re talking about dirty things. Yep. Yes, yes we are.

Good job. Patty said FemmeFemmeFraise is going to crash Discord’s automod one of these days. It’s not off of the spoken word.

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Just over what you perverts type in the chat. I think hell is allowed. I think damn is allowed.

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But there’s a bunch of words that aren’t allowed. Slut’s not allowed. There’s one from Sitting Bull who said, uh, I hope that when the wiener flute is played, the sound that comes out is Harper saying fucking slut.

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There’s one over here. Somebody said the word cunt three times in one. Cunt is definitely not allowed.

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I mean, you can say those words, I don’t give a shit. None of us care. Damn it, Patty.

Triggered it again. Patty says, can I say cunny? Yeah, cunt’s not allowed, but cunny is. I bet quim is allowed.

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Also, somebody earlier was asking about in the general chat, how do we just trigger a mod? I think that was, uh, Kali was asking about that. Use this power wisely. If you type the at symbol, mistress, you will tag every single mistress.

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And all of us, all of the mistresses have the ability to moderate the server, so that’s the way to do it. Cuntalope. Juicy.

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You’re very familiar with a cuntalope. Kali says, thank you, I saw a spammer and wanted to let someone know. Unfortunately, they weren’t actually a spammer.

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They were an idiot. I say that lovingly. They were a moron who joined a questionable Discord server.

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So, the bigger servers, the bigger it is, the more careful and wary you need to be about clicking anything in the server. So, the Pornhub server? Huge. I wouldn’t click any link in there.

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I value my computer. I’m not going to click anything in there. Pornhub has… Where are you? I know you have a list in here of how many people are in Pornhub.

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Oh, they’re having an Easter egg hunt. That’s cute. Pornhub has hundreds of thousands of people in here.

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People could be posting any sort of link. It could be a Trojan. It could have… God knows what is in there.

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They’ve got bots. Don’t click anything. Don’t click anything in there.

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The Lovin’s server? Same thing. Don’t click any links. If you see something that looks interesting, make a little mental note of it and then go look up independently so that you’re not following a link, because it could be a phishing link.

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It could be a bot that’s going to take over your account. And so, we had somebody who was posting in our server, in literally every single channel, the same thing. And it involved an invite to another server.

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It’s because this person, brand new to Discord, having a great weekend, joins this really cool looking server. It’s got 90-some odd… 90,000 people in it. 18,000 online.

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Promises… Camgirls. And he clicked a link. He clicked something in that server.

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And it took over his account and was posting that. So don’t. Don’t do that.

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He got his account back and learned his lesson. And now he is an object lesson for everyone else. Don’t click links in sex servers.

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It could be, like, a bot. We use bots. There are bots in the server.

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I’m using one right this second. Hi Craig. Craig.

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Craig. But we’re selective about which bots are in the server. And I can tell you what each bot is for and what they do.

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Ken on Maui has joined us in here too. Hi, Ken. So, if you join a big server, don’t click links.

Just don’t. I wouldn’t… Don’t do that. Don’t click any of those links.

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It could be a bot that takes you over. It could be a phishing link. And especially if you join one of these big servers and they’re like, ooh, I want to have sex with you.

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Don’t you want to give me a tip? Yeah, they’re going to steal your banking information. Good job. Don’t do that.

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We have an independent payment processor that we use that is an actual legitimate payment processor. We have a method that you can use to get a refund if you feel like, oh, this was a bad value. That’s cool.

Hey, Piggy has also joined us in here. We have a quality guarantee. We have a support email.

Support at EnchantrixEmpire.com If you ever have a problem with anything you can reach out and talk to people. You know, we’re legit. Enchantrix Empire and LDW Group have been around since 2003? I think 2003.

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The server that the guy was posting about said, very proudly established November 2025. Look, this server’s been around longer than that. We’re We’re legit.

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And I know, scammers would also say that. But also, we give refunds. Fucking hell.

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So, let’s talk about orgasm control. Addy said, but I want to have sex. Yeah, but not for free.

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Free sex? They’re going to get your money one way or another. Don’t. Just.

No. Paddy said, did we have a topic for tonight or do we plan to pivot fully to Discord safety? Nah, we’re going to talk about Oh, that reminds me. I haven’t posted everything everywhere.

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Here. We’re going to talk about orgasm control. Because the Stroke-a-thon is here, bitches.

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So, if you want to participate in the Stroke-a-thon and you should, because it’s awesome Stroke-a-thon is amazing. Join us. Bianca said, stroke it to the left, stroke it to the right stroke it in the middle, stroke it up your ass Yes, please.

Stroke all the things. Stroke all of the thon. If you want to do well in the Stroke-a-thon, you need to have some pretty good orgasm control skills.

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You need to be able to control when you cum. And if you cannot control when you cum, one, that’s hilarious. Two, I don’t think you’re gonna do very good in the Stroke-a-thon.

Oh, Kitty Kitty joined us. When did you pop in here? I’m paying attention. Mary Faye’s gonna go take a shower.

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Getting naked and wet. Patty says, I’m in the middle of my exam studying and also thinking about this. Balance is important.

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And also very precarious. Allie says, I’ve always been into the whole chastity thing anyway so I wouldn’t do very well. Well, you might.

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The Stroke-a-thon there’s a gauntlet. There’s 15 mistresses. And we all get three minutes to try to make you pop.

And we’re gonna bring our A-game and we’re gonna deliberately go out of our way in order to make you lose control. And we’re good at it. So, the first phase of the Stroke-a-thon, you have to resist cumming while following all of our guided masturbation and jerk-off instructions.

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You have to do what we tell you to do. And if you don’t do what we tell you to do, you’re disqualified and you don’t get to win. Because fuck you.

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You have to actually obey. The second phase of the Stroke-a-thon is after all 15 of us have had a turn, if you manage to resist, we switch over to sudden cum. And now, it’s of the people who have lasted who comes first.

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So now it’s, okay. Who comes first? So being able to control exactly when you cum is very important if you want to win. Patty says, Weirdly, when I’ve been doing denial for longer periods of time, I got kinda worse about holding my orgasms.

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I don’t know if that’s common. It is. You get horny.

And then you get hornier. And then you get more horny. And then you get even more horny.

And self-control there is a point at which self-control stops working. So I’m gonna talk about that too. Patty says, I’m fucked, aren’t I? Not yet.

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Not yet. You will be, if you join us. Jizzhead said, I’m going to lose fast.

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Everybody has different goals with the Strokeathon. Callie said, It’s the irony of chastity. The longer you’re doing it, the hornier you get.

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So when we’re talking about things like self-control this applies across all parts of self-control every time that you have to exercise your will in order to control yourself. You only have so much in a day. You only have so much willpower, strength, and focus to bring to bear.

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So it’s like decision fatigue. If you have to make a whole bunch of decisions, eventually you just reach a point where you’re like, you know what, fuck it, I don’t care anymore. Because you ran out.

You ran out your decision-making for the day. The same thing with willpower. That’s why the 3 o’clock uh-oh, I slipped and fell and landed on a box of donuts and ate them all.

It’s because you’ve spent your whole day controlling yourself and not snacking, right? So when you go on a diet, you have to self-control everything that you’re eating. You’re thinking about it all the time and you’re counting calories or doing your macros or well, if I exercise in the morning then I have to have a shower before work and blah blah blah. All of those are decisions and also an exercise of self-control.

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It’s why, right before you’re ready to go to bed, a cookie can break you. Because you have used your will and your self-control all day long and eventually it runs out. And then you’re just gonna do the thing.

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Your willpower runs out. It’s why yep, Patty said, is that why I’m so bad about being able to study and do house chores in the same day? Yes. Uh-huh.

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Yeah. You run out. It’s also why it’s anything that involves sustained focus and attention over time.

So if you’ve been really, really good about your diet just don’t even open like Temu. You’re gonna spend too much money. Don’t open the Amazon app.

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You’re gonna go shopping. If you have sat down for lunch and you’re like, I’m gonna be extra good and I’m just gonna have a salad. And then you walk down the street and there’s a bookstore and you think, I’m just gonna go in and look.

No you’re not. You’re gonna go spend money on a book. You’ve already exercised self-control and now you’re gonna be worse at it later in the day.

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It’s just human nature. It just is what happens. So my best advice for the Stroke-a-thon don’t practice chastity in the week or so leading up to it because you’ve already run out a whole bunch of your willpower and your self-control.

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Aim for a moderate amount of masturbation. Not excessive amounts and not none at all, but just kind of a nice middle. Nice middle in there.

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Ah! Patty says, I thought I was safe from call-outs today. Never! Never safe. Kelly says, Patty, I’m not sure how many episodes of Whore School I’ve heard where you were safe.

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Hey, Mott! Mott’s joining us tonight. Hey! So learning how to come on command is a pretty important part of advanced orgasm control, really. Edging is also a type of orgasm control.

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Gooning and simping orgasm control because it’s about masturbating without coming. Right? It’s the masturbation without coming. You’re controlling the orgasm.

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Like, when we get right down to brass tacks, that’s really, really what orgasm control is. It’s what it is. Controlling whether or not you come.

That’s all. Chastity is a device, often, but it’s often a mindset as well, that if you’re using a physical device, it physically controls your orgasm. A cockering can physically control your orgasm.

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Putting a butt plug in can physically control whether or not you’re going to come, depending on how you’re using it and exactly what you’re doing. Mott says, I was late to class. Sorry, I was smoking in the boys’ room.

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A picture of Patty and everyone. Why is that link not- oh, oh, okay. That link’s not opening.

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Piggy has a butt plug in and wants everyone to know. Oh, now we know. Oh, that crashed.

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Oh, yeah, the little Ralph kid saying, I’m in danger. Yeah, you are. You’re welcome.

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Yeah. GIFs are shown as links and it’s because we can’t trust any of you motherfuckers. Just to put it very bluntly, none of you are trustworthy.

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I’m kidding, I’m kidding. Yeah, see, Kali says better safe than sorry. Yeah, some of the GIFs are not cool.

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Patty says, I’m trustworthy and well-behaved. I don’t smoke in the boys’ room. You smoke in the girls’ room.

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That ain’t all you’re doing over there, either. Somebody wrote something about you on the wall. Right.

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Exactly, Patty. Maud says, I’m smoking in class. Well, puff puff pass, bitch.

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So, alright, orgasm control. Edging is orgasm control. So, if you really, really, really want to train for the Stroke-a-thon, of course, you can call for one-on-one instruction.

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Sup? I do this. Miss Bianca does this. Any of the ladies in the Enchantrix Empire server will do this.

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We’ll train you. Sure. It doesn’t even have to be one of the ladies who’s participating in the Stroke-a-thon as one of the fifteen.

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You can talk to any of us. It’s just we limited it to only fifteen because last time we had, like, almost thirty of us? It was wild. We each only had ninety seconds to talk.

Ninety seconds. Ridiculous. We get three minutes this time.

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Patty says, wait, there’s a participant limit? There was a participant limit for the Mistresses because otherwise you’d have all sixty of us. Each of us, you have forty-five seconds. Okay.

Sure. I can showcase myself in forty-five fucking seconds. Patty says, oh, the audio cut out for the word Mistress.

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Let’s make sure it gets in there real good. Mistress. So what you want to do is you want to edge.

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You want to get into the groove. I wouldn’t say all the way up to the full goon. The mindlessness of it.

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If you’re really deep into goon territory, that can go for hours. You really only need to try to goon out that kind of meditative vibe to you. You really only need to truly goon for fifty minutes.

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Patty says, my brain doesn’t like that goon is a word. That’s okay. Every time I hear the word goon, I think about hockey.

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She said fifty minutes. Because that’s the… It should, theoretically, provided there are no tech issues and everything goes smoothly. Fifteen Mistresses for three minutes each? That’s only forty-five minutes.

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So there’s going to be about five minutes or so at the start of getting everybody in and making sure everybody’s settled. Advising people and being like, hey, so-and-so, I need you to move your viewpoint. I can’t see your penis.

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I don’t want to see your face. I want to see your dick. That kind of stuff.

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And then there is a small gap in between each of the ladies as we transition from one to the next. And so there’s also some built-in time for, well, what if one of the Mistresses’ microphone stops working? So that we can… Yeah. Do that.

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She said, I would have to be drunk and numb down there to last that long. I don’t think you could last that long. I don’t know.

You could probably last that long, but it would be really difficult and hilarious to watch you sweat and turn red and squirm and struggle because it would be very difficult. Patty’s talking about old superhero movies and superhero comic books. There’s one… who was it? I think it was Batman talking to his sidekick about how he just needs some solid dick from Batman.

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That about died. Hey, Potato. Solid dick was old-timey slang for good advice.

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Does it mean what you think it means? Potato’s like, what did I walk in on? Whore School. This is a sex ad. Do you feel educated yet? Night-night, Jizzhead.

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Goodness. Edging. Kylie says, Whore School or you will learn something, like it or not.

(30:04 – 30:08)
Yeah. Welcome to Whore School. It’s adult sex education.

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You will learn something, and that is a threat. Patty’s like, oh, and everyone laughing at Joker’s boner. Old-timey slang for a mistake.

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What a silly boner. This is right up there with the time when I was younger reading Romeo and Juliet for the very first time, and there is a filthy joke in the very beginning. Well, there’s several jokes in the very beginning, but there was a filthy joke that I got because I’d been reading romance novels.

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Old romance novels. I knew what that slang term was. I’m giggling at the two fellas and they’re talking about how there’s sexy girls over there and it’s before the bite do you bite your thumb.

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It’s when they’re talking about how the pretty girls and what they would do to them and I’d kiss them on their maidenhead and their maidenhead and I just about fell over laughing in class and no one else did. So, silly boner. Oh, it took less than 30 minutes for chat to derail, Mrs. Harper.

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Hush. Oh, God. I got mentioned in the private stroke-a-thon chat.

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Excellent. Patty said, I think I’m going to go I think my record is 20 minutes. There have been entire episodes where I start the show and immediately derail.

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Like, topic? Why would I stay on topic? It’s so much more interesting to explore the little side alleys. So, orgasm control. I’m going to get us back on topic.

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Bot said, Ms. Harper was in her birthday suit last night for Kingston drinks because I remembered in the last 10 minutes of Ms. Krista’s show that it was her birthday and I should pop on to be like, hey, happy birthday. Except I was getting ready to go shower so I was nude. I was in my all-together.

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I was naked. I’m currently wearing a skirt and a bra. You’re welcome.

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Patty says not to be that guy but imagining Ms. Harper in the nude is not helpful for controlling orgasms. Well, it’s helpful for my goal of making you make a mess during the stroke-a-thon. That’s the goal.

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Bianca says right. Okay. You need to learn how to edge.

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You need to learn to get very, very close to an orgasm and not finish. That is very possibly the most important thing for you to learn if you want to do well in the stroke-a-thon. Because you’re going to have beautiful women encouraging you to go on.

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Let go. Come. It’ll be fun.

Don’t you want to? Of course you want to. It feels nice. And your goal for the stroke-a-thon is to not do that.

Good fucking luck. But because your goal is to not come, you need to practice doing that. You need to practice getting very close to orgasm without finishing.

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You don’t want to actually go all the way and finish yourself. Patty said how close to the edge do you need to get for it to count as an edge? There’s a moment that feels like the point of no return. Just before then.

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Potatoes is glad I’m not joining. I could not handle that. You should join.

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It’s only 30 minutes. Do one 30 minute session and you’re in. And then you get to participate in the stroke-a-thon.

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You get to at least listen. There is the stroke-a-thon chat. Right now it’s all 15 of us sitting in there with the two guys who have registered.

(36:19 – 36:36)
We’re like, hello? It’s echoey in here. We need more guys. But then you get the hour-long event that you get to listen to and participate.

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So you do a 30 minute session. You probably had an orgasm. Because, hey, we’re that good.

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And then you get the explicit chat because you’ve paid. So we can verify that you’re definitely over the age of 18. We can be dirty.

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And then you get the event. Which is gonna be awesome. There’s no reason not to join.

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If you do 30 minutes, join the freaking stroke-a-thon. Even if you’re like, I’ll lose. Dude, you came.

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How are you losing? You get to have an orgasm and listen to all of us beg you to come. That’s perfect. Potato said, I have plans to see a comedian named Lucy Darling that night.

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I love her. I’m so jealous. That’s so cool.

(37:33 – 37:38)
She’s fabulous. I love her videos. Anyways.

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So you need to practice edging. You need to practice edging while being egged on. Because I know a lot of you folks are very submissive.

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And that’s okay. You’re allowed to be submissive. But you’re also kind of wired in a way to obey.

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To do what we want. Hey, I didn’t even know this. Pelagophile? Pelagophile.

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Pelagophile has joined us. I don’t even know how to say your name. Patty said I had to double check.

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There was a chance that tickets I had to see Brennan Lee Mulligan would land on the same day. But that show is actually, I think, the very next day. Dude.

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That’s awesome. That is gonna be fun. He’s one of the people that I would absolutely throw my panties on the stage for.

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Like… Yeah. Yeet! There goes a bra. Absolutely.

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Excellent way to completely sidetrack me. Great. Good job.

(39:19 – 39:26)
Good job, chat. Well done. Potatoes has noted Mistress Harper likes D&D nerds.

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Only a little bit. And by a little bit, I mean, yep. Definitely.

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Hey, Miss Hadley has joined us in here. What’s up, homie? She’s the Mistress of the Month. That means if you do a call with her, you get five minutes for free all month long.

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What could be better than that? Very little is better than that. I mean, ice cream on a hot day. Or five free minutes with you.

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Lovely to see you. You too. What are we talking about? Orgasm control for the Stroke-a-thon.

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Gotta have it. The importance of contacting one of us, any of us really. Me.

Me. For in-person training. Because it’s not just enough to edge, right? They need to be able to edge and resist being told that it’s time to finish.

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By 15 of us. Yeah. Most of the guys who call us are a little bit submissive.

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They’re wired to obey what a woman tells us to do. So if we say, come for me, they’re like, okay. But in the Stroke-a-thon, they’re going to want to not do that.

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Which is difficult. Oh, they’re going to want to. I know.

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I can’t wait. It’s going to be so good. So perfect.

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A couple of us have things in the store to little assignment packages. I have something coming in and Miss Becky put something in. Little assignments.

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They should call us and train. Call you, call me. Call Miss Bianca, call us.

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Call us for a training session. You gotta say it, though. You gotta be like, I’m training for the Stroke-a-thon so I need you to tease me and tell me to come and I’m going to try not to.

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Because otherwise you’re just being a disobedient little brat. And if you don’t tell me that this is for the Stroke-a-thon and you’re like, because I’ll always ask, are you going to come for me today? Are we doing that? Is this a denial call or is this a you’re going to come? You have to tell me. You gotta communicate, bitches.

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You can do everything but read minds. I’m working on that, though. Eventually it gets easier.

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It gets pretty easy to be able to predict what they’re going to do. Bless them. I know.

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I’ve shocked the hell out of some guys. They call and they’re like, I don’t want to tell you what I’m into. I’m too embarrassed to say it.

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I’m like, oh, cocksucking. Yes. How did you know? How did you know? I’m like, darling, you are not the only repressed little cocksucker.

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Yeah. If they all decide to get over their hang-up about it, we’re in trouble. Yeah.

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But the world would be a better place. Agreed. Agreed, I would take it.

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I agree. I had some awakening with y’all. Love that.

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Good. Hashtag life goals. I’m going to wake you up.

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Remind you. Patty’s like, not cocksucking. Specifically, I knew I liked that for a bit.

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Good. That’s a good realization to come to about yourself, really. There’s nothing wrong with sucking a little dick.

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Or a big dick. Or a big one. Jinx.

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I’m actually going to bother. May as well be what you prefer. Potato says, meh.

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Uh-huh. Yeah. The step beyond edging.

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There’s edging. There’s gooning. You don’t want to fall into the gooning mindset for this stroke-a-thon in particular.

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But it is an awful lot of fun to play with. It’s almost a meditational altered state of consciousness that involves your dick. Edging, you want to get really close to orgasm.

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Gooning, you just want to masturbate and kind of hit a groove. It’s not necessarily orgasm-oriented. It’s just masturbation.

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You get really close to orgasm. You get really comfortable with simply touching yourself for an extended period of time. It’s not about raising up and chasing the plateau of I’m so close to coming, I could almost come.

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Like, right this second, I’m right there. Oh god, oh god, oh god. Because at that point, when you’re at the edge, you can hold it off, and you can try to stay at that.

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But eventually, you back down again. You back down to a lower level of arousal. Whether that’s by going over the edge, and haha, now you’re done, because you came.

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Or just by… Some people reach a point where they’re so close, they’re so close, they’re so close, and then the urge to orgasm fades away, but they still are at that level of arousal. And they can just stay there for a while, and then reach an even higher level of arousal past that. It’s so fun, and one of the amazing things about what edging can do for you.

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But gooners, they’re not chasing the orgasm. They’re just chasing the pleasure of masturbation. Most of the time.

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Potato said, think of a political figure when you want to stop yourself. Yeah, but that’s a boner killer. You’re gonna stop, but you’re also gonna go hmm… … That’s like the emergency exit break.

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Right? What was it? I don’t know, something out of some movie where it’s like, think of Margaret Thatcher on a cold day! Bergen-Thatcher on a cold day! Exactly. Yeah. Yeah.

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Some political figures, naked. Yeah. Yeah.

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No. Yikes. You could break bad habits that way.

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Thank you. You can have that thing that you want, but you have to imagine yourself like, eating it off of that particular political figure, and then… Oh. Oh.

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I gotta monetize that. Oh. Bianca said, Hey Potato, when you come, is it like gravy for a mashed potato? Ha.

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Ha. Ew. Oh, they say I’m off the wall.

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No, you are the queen. Do you like your gravy with lumps? I’m a bad person. Oh, careful where you point that thing.

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Let you dry out. Welcome to hell. Welcome to Tom’s favorite sin.

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He’s like, what even is this show anymore? Look. Things happen. I am a dedicated agent of chaos.

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Welcome to Whore School. I love it. Oh god.

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I’m fine. This is fine. Okay.

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I’m glad I stopped by. Oh my god. Okay, so, there’s edging, there’s gooning, and there’s also coming on command, which is my favorite trick to teach people to do.

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I love teaching people to come on command. Because there’s just so much potential in it. For messing with people.

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I mean, for fun and sexy times. It all starts with edging. Once you learn what it feels like to be completely and totally absolutely aroused, to be turned on to that point, every single time you masturbate, you must edge and get right to that point.

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And then truly, mentally focus on how badly you want to orgasm. The fact that you want to come but you can’t because you don’t have permission. You’re tying your… it’s no longer self-control.

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It is restraint because mistress says no. Mistress says not yet. Mistress said wait.

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You’re not going to come because you just can. You’re not allowed to. You can’t come.

You don’t have permission. And that’s why you’re on edge. Potato said, I still think it’s not a real thing.

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What, coming on command? It absolutely is a real thing. It’s not easy. It’s really tricky to reach there and there’s a lot of mental work that you have to do to get to where you can come on command.

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But for people who have an orgasmia, which is an inability to orgasm, learning this level of orgasm control can help. People who have premature ejaculation, this can help. It’s… Instead of it being that your self-control is what is stopping you from coming, it is a lack of permission that is stopping you from coming.

This also solves the problem that I was talking about at the beginning of the show about willpower degradation. And that the more often you have to exercise your willpower and your focus and your self-control, the more it degrades through the day, which makes decisions early in the morning that require a whole lot of willpower are easier to make than the same decision later in the day when you’ve already made a bunch of decisions. Which is also why if you have to make an important decision and decide something, you should do it first.

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Do that early in the morning so that the decision is made. Because if you come across a decision like which of these two very expensive household appliances should I buy? You’re going to struggle over that decision more later in the day than you do earlier in the morning. And so the same sort of thing applies, which is also why the Stroke-a-thon is late.

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It’s at 8 Eastern. Because we know psychologically if we had it earlier in the morning you would do better at refraining from orgasm. Later in the day, after you’ve already done a whole bunch of stuff you’re going to suck at it.

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Hehe. Because mistress always wins. Oh, you’re going to suck at it, alright.

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Hehehe. So, every single time you masturbate edge. And focus intently on the fact that you cannot come without permission.

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And the best way to do this is to like approach whichever mistress you’re working with and say, can you do a custom audio for me of you teasing me for about five minutes and then telling me to come on command. Like just saying come for me now. In a sexy way.

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And then you play your little audio when it’s time for you to come. And so then, you try to time your release to when you hear the voice say, come for me. And then you come.

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You’re in control of this. You are timing this so that you’re like, oh, and now, and now, and now. Done.

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It will build a subconscious link between the trigger, the voice saying, come for me now, and you coming. And if you do this consistently enough across time, eventually, you can shorten the amount of time required for your build-up phase of your masturbation. Most of the time when you’re masturbating, you start with a, hmm, I feel kind of horny.

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I guess I’ll jerk off. And then you get yourself out, and you get yourself hard, and you stroke for a little while, and you’re having a great time. And it lasts however long it lasts.

10, 15, 30 minutes? 2 hours? I don’t know. It’s your masturbation practice. And then, you finish.

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I have seen people who were in a dedicated DS relationship who had been taught how to come on command and go from nothing to coming on command. It takes about 5 seconds to go from this poor guy is just sitting there doing nothing, going, yep, I learned how to come on command. Now anytime she wants me to, she tells me, she uses the trigger word, and off I go.

And then the, his mistress looks over at him and says it to him. And he goes, no, oh, oh, oh, oh, and comes in his pants. It’s hilarious.

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I was like, holy shit, life goals. It’s awesome. Love that.

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Patty said, but what happens after the stroke-a-thon if that trigger is still there? Wait, never mind. I’ll probably want that. Uh-huh.

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Because it’s fun. Hehehehe. So, yes, you can learn how to come on command.

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For the stroke-a-thon, I don’t know if learning to come on command would be a good strategy for you. If, because it’s in the two phases, right? Phase number one in which you try to last for as long as you possibly can, and then phase number two, which is sudden come, whoever comes first. If your mistress isn’t part of the stroke-a-thon, you won’t have to hear her voice saying, come for me.

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If she is part of the stroke-a-thon, phase number one, as soon as it’s her turn, you lose. Because she’s going to say, come for me. And she’s going to give you the trigger you’re going to obey.

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So, from our point of view, we win. And that’s awesome. From your point of view, you wanted to last.

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Oops. Right? Uh-huh. No, no.

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Either way, it’s awesome. It’s the best. Either way, we win.

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Right? We win. You’re welcome. But Susie, he fucking loves these laughs.

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It’s because the stroke-a-thon is so fucking much fun. It’s great. I don’t… Were either of you part of the last stroke-a-thon, Miss Hadley or Miss Bianca? Bianca said no.

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I was not here yet. No. This is my first one.

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You’re going to love it. Stroke-a-thon. It’s so good.

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I cannot wait. Patty says, he thinks this is all a plot by the mistresses. Yes.

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Also, it’s fun. You’re welcome. Stroke-a-thon.

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Stroke-a-thon. Stroke-a-thon. The number of times I was talking to Miss Constance going, stroke-a-thon.

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Stroke-a-thon. Stroke-a-thon. I love it.

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I cannot wait. I cannot wait. Oh, it’s so much fun.

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Oh, it’s awesome. Bianca said, not all heroes wear capes. I should wear a cape.

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I should have a cape. Potato said, did the secret event get revealed? Dude. Oh, wow.

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Who’s going to tell him? Who’s going to tell him? Dude. Baby. Sugar.

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Honey. They’re so cute. It’s a good thing you’re pretty.

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Oh my god. I’m so glad I showed up tonight. Oh my god.

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I am entirely in love with this whole Dottie and Pony show. Can I say that? Sorry. Holy hell.

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On that note, Sweet, sweet Tater. Exactly me, Bianca. Whore School is adult sex education.

No fear, no guilt, no shame. The secret event was the Stroke-a-thon. I’ve been talking about this whole show.

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The Stroke-a-thon is the secret event. That was the thing. You should join it.

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Check out my blog, Whore School.net. There’s an article on there that has links and you would want to read it. You can also check out my other blog, fetishphonesexblog.com. You can also go to the Daily Cock cockcontrol.com slash thedailycock to see the Stroke-a-thon. It has all of the information that you could ever want.

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Thank you guys for listening. Thank you Miss Hadley and Miss Bianca for joining me tonight. Y’all are adorable.

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This was lovely. That was hilarious. I feel like Potato got a free humiliation session tonight.

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You’re welcome, Potato. You’re welcome. A multi-mistress at that.

Three of us. Precious. So good.

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Oh my god. Oh, more thunder. Just in time.

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Thank you guys for listening tonight. Whore School will be back again next week. In the meanwhile, wash your hands, wash your ass, wear a mask when you’re around strangers.

It’s never too late to start wearing a mask in public again. And, uh, be good. Talk to you later.

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Goodnight.

 

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