Welcome to Masturbation May! For the first Whore School class in May, 2026, let’s discuss JOI vs Edging. You may think those are the same thing, and while they’re related, it’s mainly because one can lead to the other. Cause and effect doesn’t mean the two things are synonymous. Correlation isn’t causation, and the thing that causes the effect isn’t the same as the effect. Throwing a rock isn’t an avalanche, you get me? Don’t worry, we’ll be discussing this further on May 3, 2026.
JOI
What is JOI, anyway? If you’ve run across that acronym and not figured out what it meant from context clues, let me just straight up tell you now. JOI is Jerk Off Instructions. For folks who like to jerk off, sometimes it’s fun to let someone else tell you how to touch yourself and instruct you in exactly what to do. How fast, how hard, how tight your grip should be, even some new techniques to make yourself feel really good! Letting go and allowing someone else to direct your masturbation is a sure fire way to have fun and learn new stuff.
Edging
Edging, for the tragically under-educated, is an orgasm control game that a person of any gender can use to make their masturbation last longer and feel more intense. As you masturbate, you’ll feel yourself approaching an orgasm. Some people do not notice when they’re getting close; this can be due to a physiological issue like premature ejaculation or a mental issue (often folks with ADHD experience sudden orgasms, because they got distracted!) Edging, for those who can tell when they’re close, is slowing or reducing the intensity of masturbation, in order to stay in the hyper-arousal phase of orgasm for as long as possible. Without cumming!
JOI vs Edging
Jerk Off Instructions can help you learn to edge, and get you right there with only a little bit of effort from you. JOI can lead to edging! But, JOI is not the same as edging, because JOI can also lead straight to an orgasm with no pausing, no stopping, and no edge at all. There is no wrong way to masturbate! (That’s not true, there are ‘wrong’ ways to jerk off, but I’m just gonna real quick let you know that any masturbation method that hurts, causes harm to yourself or others both physical and psycological, or otherwise induces trauma would be the wrong way to jerk it! Treat yourself and those around you with respect and kindness, even when you’re getting nasty!)
Join Whore School
Head on over to the Enchantrix Empire Discord! In addition to Whore School on Sundays at 11 pm Eastern, there’s Hanging With Hunter on Thursdays at 8 pm, Femdom Fridays for Fridays at 9 pm, and then Saturday has Kinks and Drinks with Ms Krista at 9 pm Eastern. We’ve got games, memes, and chat with all the Mistresses of the Empire. You do not want to miss out!!! Live events and getting to spend social time with the Ladies? With NO ALGORITHM? Fuck yeah. Mark your calendars, and join Whore School on Sundays for your Adult Sex Education. You will learn something (this is a threat.)
Your JOI Mistress Harper
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