Welcome to Capricorn season, as all my astrology apps have been saying. Tis the time of year when everyone seems to become deeply focused and invested in creating a “new” version of themselves, through rigid routines, rules, and expectations. Three guesses what does not actually help you change behavior patterns, and I just listed them the sentence before this one. Yeah, turns out ye olde goat-fish fucker season may be great for introspection and figuring out your goals, but the methods we tend to use to try to enact said goals kinda suck. So, join Whore School on December 28, 2026 for Intentions and Resolutions and learn how to make your dreams a reality!
Intentions and Resolutions
I know, I sometime hit the same message a few times, but honestly repetition is the best way for you to learn any material. It’s not that I’m a one note flute, it’s just that this is something that runs counter to our cultural understanding of what the New Year is “for“. Setting your own intentions and resolutions for yourself is a good thing, because we are not meant to be stagnant and unchanging. Deliberate progress towards your goals is the best way to (pardon the pun) intentionally change yourself.
We All Change Over Time
You will change over time. This isn’t a threat or a warning, it’s just a fact. You will change and grow. Your body will be changed by the life you live, your mind expanded by the media you interact with, and your inner self will change in response to the world around you. You can be changed, willy-nilly, as the world wants to mold you, or you can choose how you will change. Sometimes the world will seem to be pushing you towards becoming more cold, disconnected, and isolated. If that’s not how you want to live your life, you can change that. So, close your eyes, and picture yourself as you would like to be in five or ten years. How do you get to that version of yourself?
Positive vs Negative Rewards
If your five year vision of yourself has six pack abs, a trim waist, and nice shoulders, you’re more likely to attain that vision if you’re nice to yourself. Setting a goal of “hitting the gym every day no matter what”, with harsh restrictions and punishments for yourself if you miss a day? Phew, that resolution will be dust by January 13th. Unless you are a masochist who gets off on public humiliation and CBT, skip the harsh, mean self abuse, and go for a little reward when you meet your goals. Also, make those goals fucking realistic! Going to the gym every day is too much, sweaty. You will not have mad gains, you will strain yourself and sabotage your progress. Go to the gym three times a week, set realistic and attainable goals, and reward yourself for meeting them! Or set yourself some hot sissy resolutions and enjoy making those a reality instead.
Ready To Set Some Goals?
Join Whore School on December 28, 2025 at 11 pm Eastern for our last live show of the year! Goodbye 2025, hey there 2026. Live at 11 pm, and hit the Community Kink chat during the show for the full experience, bring your brand new planners and let’s fill in some goals, intentions and resolutions for 2026! Got your Word Of The Year all picked out? Let’s manifest! Oh, and if you need advice for how to turn your kinks and fetishes into rewards, listen to Femdom Fridays Kinky Goals on December 26, 2025 at 9 pm Eastern. In the meanwhile, leave me a comment and tell me what YOUR intentions and resolutions are for 2026!
Your Realistic Goal Setting Host, Harper
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