Body Worship and Self Love

I think I need to start out by warning you that when I talk about “Self Love” I’m not just talking about some casual five minute masturbation sort of a self ‘love’. And that when I say “Body Worship” I really mean the ‘worship’ part. So if you’re too caught up in a Puritanical point of view that the flesh is sinful and sex is gonna send you to hell, I’d suggest you grab yourself a nice comforting drink, a snuggly pillow to hug, and work on your deep breaths before Sunday January 11, 2026, at 11 pm when I’ll be live on the internet telling you to go forth and sin.

Body Worship

Time to make Calvinists and Puritans deeply uncomfortable: your body is divine, and worthy of being worshipped both by yourself and others! You do not need to change yourself in any way to be worthy of good things in your life, including a reverence and worship that absolutely overlaps with the same reverence and worship you may reserve for divine beings. When I say “fuck John Calvin and the Puritans”, what I mean is you should embrace the good things in your life and revel in them with no fear, shame or guilt! Including sex and sexuality.

Self Love

If it is true that resting is a type of revolution, then self love is, too. Pay attention some time to what marketing and ads are trying to convince you about yourself and your life: to whit that you are dirty, disgusting, and ugly, but if you buy the product you can wash yourself clean, be less disgusting, and put something over the ugly bits of yourself. Self love means being willing to accept yourself, and everyone else, as they are, and see all people as lovable. And yes, that’s easier said than done. But really, fuck purity culture.

How To Embrace Body Worship and Self Love in 2026

Tune in to the LIVE Adult Sex Education podcast Whore School on January 11, 2026, at 11 pm Eastern for an in-depth takedown of purity culture and some actionable advice for how to really embrace body worship and self love. We’re gonna start with some affirmations, so you can reprogram the voice in your head that keeps on insisting that you’re not worthy of a relationship or love, then we’re gonna create some daily routines so self care, self love, and body worship all become ingrained habits. You do not want to miss the live discussion! Remember to join the chat during the live show at Community Kink.

Your Body Worship and Self Love Mistress, Harper

PS: I may be a little late, I am going to the special event showing of Labyrinth in theaters for the anniversary! Which also means I’ll be all dressed up for the show.