WS 514 Alpha Male Craves Submission

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WS 514 Alpha Male Craves Submission

 

As you know by know, since I’ve hit this topic a few times from different angles, the entire concept of ‘alpha’ and ‘beta’ males, and all the other Greek letters the podcast bros like to use to categorize people, are utter tripe, bullshit, and hookum. Enjoy this episode of Whore School in which I go deep on debunking the notion that some people are just born better, and instead introduce the idea of a high achieiving person, and how the human mind and psyche needs balance to be whole. This is why some high achieving persons crave submission. If I have to call them an ‘alpha male’ to appeal to the internet algo, I shall, but know, when I do say that, that I’m sneering in academic ethnologist about it.

 

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It’s time for Whore School. We’re here! Where are you? Why aren’t you here? Come and join us! We are in the Enchantrix Empire Discord server as of right this second, Sunday, August 30th at 11 p.m. Eastern. That’s eight o’clock on the west coast.

I’m in Texas. It’s like 10 o’clock at night. Come over here! Come here! Come here! Get over here! Get in here! It’s free to join and everybody over here is very friendly, so it’s very nice.

Drecha! Uh, you will notice, for those of you who are in the server, the bot, Craig, he got an upgrade. Doesn’t he look cute? They updated him, uh, yesterday during Miss Krista’s show, uh, Kinks and Drinks, which is another of the live shows that you can enjoy in the Enchantrix Empire Discord server. Um, but the reason why she wound up having to use Pawa is because, uh, they were updating Craig.

But look at his avatar! Isn’t he cuter? He’s so much cuter! He’s like a little marmot. I don’t know what the fuck he’s supposed to be. He’s obviously a tiny little rodent.

He’s really adorable. We love Craig. Anybody who doesn’t like Craig, I can’t even speak to you.

I cannot. So I am still Mistress of the Month. That means you can get five minutes added for free to any paid session with me, all the way through to the end of August.

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And that means that tomorrow, the very last day, yes, I’ll be on as long as I possibly can. And I’m sighing about it because y’all are gonna be mean to me. You’re gonna make me put in another 13-hour day, aren’t you? Jerks.

God. I’m teasing you. For some reason, a bunch of the chatters don’t like Craig.

I don’t know why. Craig is nice. Uh, Poovarian Poovie, uh, says Craig will never be forgiven for what he’s done unless he admits his wrongdoing.

But I don’t think, I don’t think Craig ever did anything wrong. What’s wrong with Craig? Craig works great. Don’t, don’t even, don’t even come from my boy.

My buddy. My wee little cute friend. Sweet Craig.

So far in the show tonight, I’ve had Gigi, Goddess’s little giggle slut. Hey, Patty. Callie, the sweet girl.

And Poovie. Poovie says he knows what he did. Yeah, but I don’t.

Therefore, Craig is innocent. My sweet, innocent little bot. He does his job, and he does his job without me having to pay for a premium service.

Therefore, I love him. He does his job real fucking well. For those of you who are wondering, um, what I’m talking about on Discord, Discord has a lot of stuff that’s kind of built into the system, but there are some little functionary bits that Discord does not have, and therefore you use a bot to, you know, make up the lack.

So Discord does voice chat really, really well. Like, oh my god. Our server is fully boosted.

I think we can have up to a thousand people in a live event like this. Um, we’ll get there. Get there eventually.

Yeah, yeah, it’ll be great. It’s fine. Um, and, uh, there are currently 964 members of the server, so that’s pretty good.

Look at us. We crack a thousand. I don’t know.

I’m gonna, I don’t know, scream or cry or something. But, uh, so we can have a whole bunch of people in here. We can also have a whole bunch of people speaking all at the same time.

Witness Femdom Fridays, where I think the most I’ve had was eight people, and I know this because of Craig. Also, I can count. Craig is a bot, and you invite him into your server, and then you invite him into a channel, and then you tell him, Craig, record, and Craig goes, yeah, okay.

It records all of the voice tracks. It doesn’t record the soundboard, which is terrible because you guys are really missing out. I’ve got some good sounds on the soundboard because I’m a nerd.

Nerd. Giant fucking nerd. So, Craig won’t record the soundboard, but he does record individual voices, and he records each voice on their own separate track, and that’s why Femdom Fridays sounds really good.

You’re welcome. It’s because Craig will output an Audacity project file for me, which is an enormous file, but every voice, every speaker, is a separate track, and so I can edit each track separately to maximize that voice and make everybody sound really, really good. You might notice there’s a difference between the way the live show sounds and the way the recorded show sounds, and that’s because of me.

I edit the audios. I edit it for clarity. I normalize all of the volume.

I make everything sound nice. Nice. Hey, Brittany, welcome to the show tonight.

So, yeah, Craig. I love Craig. Craig outputs an Audacity file for me.

Pawa does not output an Audacity file. Pawa outputs one single MP3, one track, all the voices on just one track. You cannot edit individual voice tracks, so if somebody’s audio sounds like exceptional shit or there’s a bunch of feedback or echo or um looping noises in Audacity, if it’s a separate track, I can go in there and fix that.

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The Pawa output, you can’t fix that. It’s all in one track. Good luck.

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That’s just how it’s gonna sound. So, Pawa is a little bit easier to use for some folks because it does just output an MP3. That’s all.

Boom. MP3. Craig’s slightly more complicated in that, oh no, there’s a couple of extra steps.

That’s it. Easy peasy. For those of you who are curious, this is of course Whore School.

It’s a sex education podcast for grown-ups. If you’re under the age of 18, fuck off you little shit. If you’re over the age of 18, welcome.

How you doing? Are we doing good? Hey prisoner, I see you popping in here. What’s up homie? Oh, I forgot to put it in. I’m over here like sending out the invites to listen to the show everywhere.

Except, hey, I pressed enter. All right. That doesn’t want to work right now.

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Wonderful. What broke? McCoy. Welcome in McCoy.

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Oh, it’s because I had the microphone sitting on the keyboard. Whoops. My bad.

Sup y’all. We’re going to talk about high achieving people and submission and why those often go hand in glove. It’s an interesting topic for the show tonight.

In the post that I made for Whoreschool.net, which you really should be following, I talk a bit about how the Whore School philosophy is no fear, no guilt, no shame. Because fear, guilt, and shame are all emotions that are often used and manipulated by other people to control your behavior. They’re used for social and societal control in order to get you to behave the way that society wants you to behave.

Most of the time, this is a good thing. Most of the time, fear, shame, and guilt are things that stop you from doing antisocial things. We have an entire we have an entire mental illness, antisocial personality disorder, centered around people who don’t experience fear, guilt, and shame.

I’m laughing because Prisoner is in the chat, and he said, why does Craig look like he’s devolved and de-aged? He didn’t. He got an upgrade. The developers for the Craig bot were updating the servers for Craig last night during Miss Krista’s show.

That’s why she was using a different bot. One of the upgrades that they gave was, Craig has a different avatar now. He looks less weird.

He looks a little bit less disturbing. He’s very, very cute. And if you look at his, his whole profile, he’s got a cute new banner, where he looks like the lo-fi radio girl, but he’s like a lo-fi podcaster dude.

He’s so cute. He got upgraded. I’m fond of him.

I think he looks adorable. Giggle says, I wonder if he’s enough interest in the question, is there a truly universal human experience to be talked about on a whole episode? Well, there are a few things that all humans do. We all breathe.

We all eat food. We all go to the bathroom and sleep. It’s his chest fur.

Prisoner said he looks like he’s wearing a bib. It’s his chest fur. Hello, Atticus Renoir.

Welcome to the show tonight. Giggle says, technically, there are people who don’t sleep. I know, but those people are fucked up.

Okay, so no fear, no guilt, no shame. They are emotions that are used for societal control, by and large. They’re also used on an individual basis.

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You can leverage your own fear, guilt, and shame to get yourself to do things that you want. You can shame yourself into exercising more, or eating more healthy, or you know, whatever it is that you want to shame yourself into doing. Masturbating less.

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I don’t fucking know. The trick is using fear, guilt, and shame can backfire in interesting, not nice sorts of ways. Largely because using negative emotions in order to prevent, or stop, or block yourself from doing a thing, or to try to make yourself do a thing that you’ve decided is, you know, beneficial.

Those negative emotions, they don’t work long-term anyway. They work short-term, but humans rapidly get over fear, guilt, and shame. You have to make it something really, really overarching and overwhelming for it to have a lasting effect on people’s behavior.

And even then, fear, guilt, and shame as a motivator, or a demotivator for preventing behavior, people are going to do whatever it is they’re trying to avoid or not avoid, and then just feel guilty about it. It’s better to use a more positive type of an emotion to motivate or prevent. So pride.

Look at you. You’ve done such a good job. You lasted five days without eating any doughnuts.

Good job. Right? Pride and a reward are a better motivator than shaming someone. Or, well, look at you.

You’re such a fat slob. You ate doughnuts. Whatever.

That’s funny. Hey, Kylie. Welcome in tonight.

Ruby said, speaking of no fear and no shame, you should all be happy to know that Spotify transcribes Ms. Harper’s new nickname for me as Poopy or Ruby. Good funny. Hallie points out there’s a lot of shame when it comes to alphas.

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I know. So the alpha male, the myth of the alpha male. I’ve talked about this before.

And in fact, I do believe there’s an entire episode about the myth of the alpha male on account of it is a large stinky pile of bullshit. Frankly, talk about some really non-scientific crap. It is based on God.

Okay. Richard, I want to say Dawson. See, now I gotta look it up.

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Oh, Rudolf Schenkel. All right. And David Meck.

I think Richard Dawson. Who’s Richard Dawson? Anyways, in the 1940s, they started studying captive wolf populations. How fun is that? Dr. David Meck used the word alpha to describe wolf behavior because they were studying captive wolf populations.

Hi, Tina. Welcome to the show tonight. So captive wolf populations, not wild wolf populations, in a very small territory.

And these captive wolves were not related to one another. They were a bunch of random captive wolves that they put together in a pen and then studied and observed for a while to try to make conclusions about wolf behavior. Now, from our lofty point of view in the year of our Lord 2026, we can look back on these studies and go, well, there’s your problem.

Captive, not wild wolves in a too small territory. The pen was really small. They were not related to one another.

It was not a family unit. Of course, you’re going to get weird fucking behavior. That is not the natural way that wolves behave.

Wolves don’t act like that. Not in the wild. They act like that when they are stressed, captive, and separated from their families.

So in a way, sure, we can draw a few conclusions based on these wolf, wild, captive, stressed out, unrelated wolves forced to interact with one another and draw a few conclusions about the ways that humans behave. Sure. Because stressed humans held captive in a too small space and forced to interact with one another are going to act like that too.

Hey, Six. Six, the cat, has also joined us tonight. I know.

Kylie says, I totally get this, but I hate to ruin it for the Omegaverse fans. Right? Look, there’s a difference between an Omegaverse fantasy and thinking you’re an alpha. So the captive wolf population, they came up with the idea that there is an alpha wolf, like an alpha male and an alpha female that are in charge of talking about Omegaverse.

Ran Six, the cat, away. Look at that. Look what we did.

Go us. It was the Omegaverse. Okay.

So there’s an alpha pair that’s in charge of the pack that wasn’t a pack and that they’ll have like a lieutenant who’s their second in charge, and that’s the beta male or the beta female. And then there will be… I said, what a beta. And then there will be the outcast or the lowest ranked within the pack.

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And those are the Omegas. Those are words that have been co-opted by people who enjoy the Omegaverse fetish, which I did actually explain in a fairly recent episode of Whore School. The one about furries and Futa.

You’re welcome. So captive wolves might behave like that, but further studies on different groups of captive wolves showed that that’s not how wolves behaved. It was highly dependent on the specific wolves involved that were being held captive, how they were being held captive, how often they were fed, and the makeup of the group that was being held captive altogether.

All of that plays into how these dynamics grow and develop. Because if you’ve got related females that are held captive in a slightly larger area, the behavior is different. Who has joined or left? Maybe somebody left.

Can’t tell. Oh, Addy joined. Hi, Addy.

Welcome tonight. Kylie says, I’ve decided that having two dogs, I’m the Omega in my house. You’re the outcast.

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Giggleslut said the Omegaverse stuff has ruined my ability to do large sections of my math program without thinking about this shit. Because Greek letters show up all the time. You’re welcome.

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Nice. Venus says, what is Omegaverse? I know that you’re asking in good faith, but also… Oh, fanfiction. It’s in fanfiction.

It involves humans with wolf-like, not really, characteristics. Putting it as broadly as I possibly can. Okay, so actual wolf behavior.

The supposed alpha male and alpha female. Yeah, that’s the mom and dad. That’s the breeding pair.

That’s what that is. There will be one female who usually goes into estrus heat, basically, and breeds the other females in the pack. If they are old enough to breed and they decide they want to, they will find themselves a mate and go off and make their own pack, slash family.

Almost all of the wolves in any group or pack are related to one another. Altruistic behavior comes into play, because aunt and uncle wolves within the pack helped care for the puppies of the breeding pair, because they’re all related. So, by taking care of a related to you puppy that shares some of your DNA, this is good for you, because it ensures that your DNA, at least in part, continues into the world.

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That’s the root of where altruistic behavior in groups happens. That’s why every functioning group, family, society, always has some members that do not breed, because the ones who do not breed contribute to the health of the whole, and are often related to members of the group who do, in fact, breed. I could go absolutely ham over altruistic behavior.

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So anyways, he said it’s always fun to come into Harper laughing, because sometimes I amuse the god of myself. Okay, so that’s altruism, and why aunt and uncle doggies or wolves in a wolf pack don’t breed, but still get benefit from being part of the pack. Anyways, every single thing that you think you know about being an alpha male is debunked pop science.

Sorry, none of it is true. If you ever took one of those personality tests for work that was trying to decide whether or not you were a type A personality or a type B personality, that’s also bullshit. Sorry.

Remember the episode that I did about MBTI, the Myers-Briggs type inventory? Yeah, they’re all bullshit. All of those personality tests, if it’s useful to you for self-insight, great. If you’re trying to use it in order to define your place in the world and then use it to make other people, I don’t know, submit to you or bow down to you, well, my type is this, and that means that I am special.

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Yeah, that’s a pile of shit. I’m sorry. Whoops.

Also, did you know that your IQ directly correlates with your zip code? There’s some zip codes that are more likely to have, in general, higher IQs than other zip codes, which tells you that an IQ test is flawed. Anyways, I don’t, what are you, what? Okay, so Kylie was talking about, oh, Omegaverse is a rabbit hole. Yes.

Uh-huh. And she said something about it’s easy to know how many experience points I need for the next level. Prisoners said anyone who claims that they are special usually isn’t.

Yeah. We’re far more similar to one another than we are different from one another. So instead of using a phrase like alpha male, which is very outdated and screams, I watched American Psycho with Christian Bale and thought it was a good idea.

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It’s a 1980s cocaine-fueled alpha male bullshit. Okay. Instead of using that kind of outdated terminology, you can call yourself simply a high-achieving person.

Kylie says, it’s not what my mother told me about people who say they’re special aren’t. Prisoners said American Psycho was a great documentary. For those of you who don’t know, it was not a documentary.

That was fiction. Please be fiction. Please be fiction.

Kylie says, I just like Huey Lewis. There is a Huey Lewis and Weird Al Yankovic parody slash homage to American Psycho that you need to go and watch. It was hilarious.

I saw it today. It’s why American Psycho was in my mind. It was so fucking good.

Go look that up after the show. So if you are a high-achieving person, don’t worry. That’s actually a thing.

It’s very possible for all sorts of types of person to become a high-achieving individual. A high-achiever is somebody who just does their job really fucking well. They often are a person who is at the peak of their career.

They are in a position of responsibility, authority, and power over other people. Often, they have a lot of stress in their life, a lot of things that they’re doing and taking care of, things that they are responsible for, because high-achieving people wind up taking on responsibility for an awful lot of stuff. The more responsibility a person has keeped onto them, and the more stress they feel about being a very responsible person, the stress is the important part.

The more likely that person is to find a great deal of relief in BDSM from the submissive role. So I’ve given you a really good long discussion about why alpha, beta, omega, whatever the fuck other Greek letters you want to throw at people, that’s kind of stupid, but it’s very difficult to argue against high-achieving individuals. Some people are high-achieving people, and it is possible to be both a high-achieving person at one area of your life, and plus at a completely different area of your life.

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Pooh says, I’m feeling seen right now. I am observing you. Ellie says, I am an organizer.

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I don’t like being the decision maker, but I always find myself in places where I need to be the one organizing things. I also have a tendency of making families. If I believed in the alpha stuff, I’d say I have alpha female energy.

I mean, organizer, organizer works great. He was like, Sigma. Prisoner said, Epsilon.

There’s so many fucking Greek letter people. I’ve heard of Sigma. Can’t remember what rank they assigned it, because it’s stupid, and I refuse to clutter up my brain with yet more useless information.

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Okay, for example, in schooling, I was a high-achieving person. I achieved a whole lot when I was taking classes. I was really, really good at it.

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At work, now, here, I am a high-achieving person. I’m doing a really good damn job. I have a couple of blogs, three blogs that I currently contribute to on a regular basis, two and a half podcasts that I work on actively.

I mentor some people, and I spearhead some major events for the company. The Sissy Pageant, for example. So I could easily argue that I am a high-achieving person.

I’m also a fairly dominant personality. Now, you would think that every now and then I might enjoy relaxing with some submission, but I’m aware that sometimes letting go of responsibilities and deliberately seeking out a time and a place in which to not be in charge is important, and that there must be balance in my life for mental, emotional, and spiritual health. And therefore, despite the fact that I am a high-achieving person, I’m also, I’m not in charge of everything.

The buck does not stop with me. Mentoring involves a lot of give and take and back and forth. And I’m mentoring people who are also very dominant people.

I can give advice, doesn’t mean it’s going to get taken. Prisoners at harbor, relaxing with submission. Right? What I might enjoy in my very personal private time, in my own personal fantasies, is not a thing that I feel comfortable ever sharing with a client.

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Because that’s mine. And I guard my personal private time and space very, very fiercely as part of this balance in my life that I seek and I try to have for myself. There’s gotta be a limit.

I cannot share absolutely everything with everyone. Some things are private and they stay for me. So I mess around with astrology.

I knit, I crochet, I craft, I paint, I sculpt, I garden, I work with my dogs. I get very annoyed at the cats because they’re noisy at three o’clock in the fucking morning. But this is a hard-earned skill that I have cultivated for myself because I know I need it.

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I need time and space that isn’t spent being Harper badass dominatrix. For an awful lot of other high achieving individuals, if they have not learned that lesson and had the mental breakdown, sup y’all? If they haven’t gone to that dark place and learned that if you don’t take care of yourself, nobody else is going to. So you must have boundaries.

You must have a routine. You must have a time and a space in which you put down the responsibilities. Because if you try to carry that responsibility and the power and the authority for always and never give yourself a break, you will break.

You either take the time to rest or you’re going to have to, you will burn out. And then you, you don’t get a choice about it. You’re going to rest.

You’re going to stop now because you have run yourself into the literal wall. So high achieving individuals who haven’t yet learned that lesson, find submission in BDSM extremely helpful because it’s a very, very quick and fast way to get past all of that power, authority, and responsibility. Well, hello boss otter.

Who’s an otter? Who’s a sweet otter? I love an otter. Hey buddy. I pushed a button.

Here we go. Is that a dog? I’m going to pretend that’s a dog. Might be a lion.

Could be a dog. So people who are high achieving individuals oftentimes will discover that they really deeply crave submission in the BDSM sense. And it’s because they need the balance.

Everybody needs a time and a space in which you are not responsible for what the fuck is going on around you. And if you feel like you’re always responsible, you can take a break. Oh, that’s fucking cool.

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Otter is from South Africa. Neat. I bet you’ve got a cool accent.

Sometimes people who get interested in BDSM and submission, for example, they can’t just relax into it and flip a switch and go from high achieving individual, king of the world, super in charge. And now yes, mistress, whatever you want, mistress. Some people can.

Some people have learned how to flip that switch and just click on over. And now they’re in submissive mode. Some people will call me up for a session and they have a little bit of trouble letting go completely.

Oh, Otter says that they listened to the podcast while driving on Spotify. That’s so cool. Hey, Mott, welcome to the show tonight.

You missed some good stuff. I was lecturing people. So I’ve had some folks who I would say were extremely high achieving individuals who in our call or in our session, you can tell, I can tell when someone has not had a whole lot of practice, not being the center of a room and not being in charge, because they’re bad.

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They’re bad at shutting up. They’re bad at letting go of the details and trusting me that, okay, I’ve got this now. I’m going to help you.

You tell me what the basics of your fantasy is and I’ll run with it. I’ll build something for you. Trust me.

Trusting somebody, especially trusting somebody that’s not in your direct chain of command that you didn’t train, super hard for some individuals to do. I get it. But also I’m really good at this.

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You should trust me. The chat room’s being naughty. Prisoner said, Hey, Mott, ask about Craig’s new look.

And Addie said, Oh, I’m curious about that too. It was the first 10 minutes. And then again, at 20 minutes or 30 minutes, they’re all just obsessed.

The bot got updated. It has a new avatar there. So for some people, submission works better when they can feel as if they have been pushed into it, coerced into it, made to give in.

Because having power stripped away from you and being reduced into whatever your fantasy role is, is easier than saying, I’ve gone into this and done it to myself deliberately and purposefully. Does that make sense? This is tricky in a BDSM sense, especially from the dominant point of view, because when it comes to pushing someone into submission and making them do the thing, it can be a little bit unethical to do that to someone unless you are very, very certain. Oh no, they actually really, really want this.

They want this to happen. So I’m going to give this to them and they’re going to really enjoy it. Right? And he’s going to really like it.

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Ultimately, he’ll really enjoy it. It requires a level of mutual trust and mutual intimacy and a deep understanding of one another. So if you are in the point of, you would like to explore submission, but you think you’re probably going to need to be kicked off the cliff into the deep end.

Let’s talk before I have to apply my boot to your butt and kick you into the deep end, because I would like the opportunity to build the trust with you ahead of time. It makes our interactions better. The more deeply you can trust me and trust that I’ve got you, that I understand you.

I understand what you’re looking for. I understand the fetish you’d like to explore and that you can just kind of chill out, dude. Calm the fuck down and accept this.

You’ll have a better time. See, now the chat room is like critiquing the new Craig bot. Look, Craig is really fucking pretty.

I like Craig. So Craig got his new profile picture and the new banners are from Sugarfish on X and Aim Chicken on Blue Sky for the public beta pictures. Craig is actually really cute looking.

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Craig’s a cutie. They also overhauled their entire website and there’s new emotes too. Like, there’s emojis for Craig.

Did you guys know that? Like, there’s Craig emojis. I love that. I’m kind of a hoe for Craig though.

And for emojis. Craig is awesome. We love Craig.

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He’s so cute. Look at Craig. He’s adorable.

Like, they did a good job updating it. And look, I like a bot that gets regular updates. I really do.

Have you seen how often Discord updates their app? They’re continually tweaking things and changing shit. And so if the bots aren’t maintained, they go down and then I cry because I rely on those. I need those.

I need those to be maintained. Please maintain the bots. Somebody was messaging me on Discord.

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So thank you to the people who made the bot Craig. Without Craig, I would not be able to record Whore School or Femdom Fridays or the new Get Girly Sissy podcast. You also wouldn’t be able to get any of the… forgot to start the fucking event.

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You wouldn’t get to listen to Kink Corner, Hanging with Hunter, the Weekly Hotspot, Happy Hour with K Marie, Femdom Fridays, Kinks and Drinks. You wouldn’t get any of those. Well, you would get Weekly Hotspot because that one just goes up on a speaker.

Kinkology also just is pre-recorded. So those aren’t recorded in Discord. Everything else is.

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Um, what do you think? K Marie’s show uses the PowaBot. Everybody else uses Craig. Put some respect on his name, y’all.

You put some respect on his name. He’s a good boy. We like him.

The chat. I think the chat’s just giving me a hard time because I like Craig. I like Craig.

Craig’s a good one. I think he’s cute. He says, don’t give the evil bot money.

I mean, I’m not currently paying for him, but if I wanted to, I could. You can pay for the, um, the Craig bot and then you get, uh, there’s an upgrade to it, basically. You get fancy stuff.

Craig’s adorable. I love him. I will not hear a word against him.

There. See? That’s Craig. Isn’t he cute? I think he’s a marmot.

Or a chipmunk. I don’t know. Any little rodent.

The bot said Harper and Craig sitting in a tree, kissing. I’m fond. I am fond of Craig.

He’s a weird little critter. I don’t know what the fuck he is, but I like him. Look at him.

He looks innocent. He’s adorable. Okay.

So, to sum up. Alpha, beta, omega, sigma. Yeah.

That’s all bullshit. None of that is a thing. No.

I’m so sorry. That is based on weird, debunked, pop-sci bullshit from the early, the 1970s. Get with modern research.

Okay. Oh, and also, if you ever want me to go off about wolf behavior, I happily will. So, I have various degrees in psychology, but when I was an undergrad, they didn’t actually offer it as either a degree or a minor to a degree.

But I took every single animal behavior course offered. I had 15 hours of animal behavior, and you needed 18 to get to a minor in a subject. I took all of them.

Each of those were a three-hour course, so there were five different three-hour courses in five different colleges. It’s like the College of Science, the College of… I’m trying to remember. Agriculture, Science, Ecology.

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It’s the other two. Psychology. There was one under the College of Psych.

And Biology, which was different from just science. So, anyways, I studied animal behavior in my… The thing that I studied the most and wrote almost all of my papers on was wolf behavior. So, the alpha… The alpha shit.

Yeah, that was debunked sometime in the 90s. Sorry. Sorry for all the people out there who are like, but I’m an alpha.

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I’ll wait to get out of beta testing. Never, never buy in at the alpha. Like, they’ve got to go through beta testing at least and get into a true release before I bother investing.

So, you might be a high-achieving person. And if you’re having trouble letting go and finding something to do for stress relief, sex and masturbation are fabulous for that. Start with guided masturbation, because of the various types of submission, that’s the easiest.

Easy, easy. Most likely for you to be successful at not having to be in charge. All you have to do is follow instructions and masturbate the way that I tell you to.

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It’s an easy introduction to submission. Submission doesn’t ever have to be this whole huge weighty, fraught, scary thing in which, oh, I’ve given up my free will and now I’ve been subsumed into someone else’s desires forever. No, no, it can be as simple as jerk-off instructions.

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It’s guided masturbation. And sometimes the guided masturbation is, okay, slow all the way down, and whatever you do, do not, not until I tell you that you can. I want you to hold off as long as possible.

And for some people, that’s really fucking hard to do. But that’s what makes it worthwhile. Because then you, you let go of your power, you let go of your control over what’s happening.

You give in and you follow instructions. And then you succeed because I will set the bar so low. I want you to succeed because I want you, instead of coming from that fear, guilt, and shame point of view, I want to come at it from a more positive point of view.

I’m going to give you a very easy task to do. Really, really simple. And then when you do it, and you will, I’m going to reward you for being good.

All you have to do is just don’t come, not yet. And then like 30 seconds later, look how good you’re being for me. You did such a good job.

I’m so proud of you. You can finish now. See, low, low bar, especially if you’re brand new to this.

As we practice, and as you get better at it, I’ll make it more complicated. Because overcoming and slightly more challenging challenge feels better. You get more of a rush from it.

And of course, whatever the task is, I’m going to tailor to you, your needs, your fantasies. It’s an individual thing. It’s not a one size fits all.

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But if you’re a high achieving individual who desperately wishes you could relax, hey, let’s work something out. Because I bet I can help you. Prisoner said you cannot come until you can do it standing on your head.

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Oh, I see you were reading my blog earlier today about how to eat your own cum. That’s in there. Yeah, check out my blog, fetishphonesexblog.com. I wrote a blog post, how to eat your own cum.

It literally describes my two favorite methods for how to eat your own cum, step by step. It’s right there. So if you wanted to and failed, well, I gotcha.

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It’s always easier when you have somebody on the phone with you, coaching you through it. And that just makes it more fun too. So keep that in mind.

Please don’t forget, tomorrow’s the last day of August. And we’re into September already. What the shit? Where did the year go? But I’m still mistress of the month for now.

So you can add five minutes for free to every paid session. All you have to do is call me up tomorrow. I’ll be here.

Yay. Thank you guys for listening to Whore School. It is adult sex education.

No fear, no guilt, no shame and positive rewards are the name of the game. It rhymed. Thank you all for listening.

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Prisoners of what’s a blog, bitch. Thank you all for listening. And I will see you all again next week.

Good night.

 

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