WS 480 Feminization Training Goals

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WS 480 Feminization Training Goals

 

The first live show of 2026 started off with a bang! Ms Harper flexed her Kinky Life Coach skills and helped inform sissies and trans-femme folks about exactly how to use their wildest dreams to inform their feminization goals for the year, five years, ten years, and the rest of their lives. Airing on Sunday January 4, 2026, to a live audience of eager gender explorers, this episode has a surprise at the end. Did you know you can have bottom surgery to give you a pussy, but keep your dick?! It’s true. It’s called a Penile Preserving Vaginoplasty. Surprise!

 

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My little chime goes off. It makes me feel so happy. It just, it’s so cheerful, right? Like, it’s a cheerful fucking noise.

Fuck yes, bitches. Um, so I’m cussing. I mean, for no reason, really, just because I can.

This is Whore School, uh, a surprise. For those of you who are wondering, what the fuck is going on and how did you get here? Well, you clicked a link somewhere on the internet that I just spread all over the place. The chat room, by the way, is opencommunitykink.com. Go join it.

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The chat. Oh, I’ve got Mott, Patty, and Tina. Sup, gang? I also feel like I have to let you know, um, I’m very excited about the topic for tonight.

The topic’s gonna be so fun. We are continuing our, um, exploration of, uh, goal setting, but this time, this time we’re gonna talk about feminization training goals. So that’s always fun.

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Oh, Katie’s listening over to the show, but I see that she has not yet joined us in our chat. Naughty, naughty. Communitykink.com is the place to go if you want to participate in the chatty stuff, because I, uh, look, there’s my, the Whore School discord, there’s the Enchantrix Empire discord, there’s Twitter comments, there’s Blue Sky, there is the Community Kink chat room, there’s a chat room that’s built into Podbean.

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I’ve run out of fingers on one hand. That’s too many. So just go to communitykink.com and join the chat room over there.

It’s so much better. Look at that. Mott is doing the most.

He’s over here in the, um, Podbean chat room sharing the link. I know there’s too many things for me to look at. That’s why every show always starts with me sounding a little bit frazzled.

It’s because I was putting the link to the show in all the places. All the places. There’s too much.

We’re going to talk about feminization training goals. Now, if you listened to last week’s episode, you should have. It was intentions and resolutions for 2026.

And I talked about how to set your intentions, your resolutions for the coming year. The best possible way to do that to make sure that they’re actually, you know, attainable. So if you want your goals to be attainable, it has to be something that you like, actually want.

Your goal can’t be a thing that you’re kind of lukewarm about. It can’t be a thing that you’re like, eh, I guess. Patty said basically be specific and don’t be too hard on yourself right away.

Right? Like, yay, Katie joined us over here. Sup girl. So, um, be specific.

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Make sure it’s something that you want. And if you phrase or word your goal in such a way that you bum yourself out, you’re not super duper likely to actually follow through on that shit. Ask me how I know.

Like, come on, y’all. It has to be the kind of a goal that you actually want to do. If it isn’t the kind of goal that you want to actually attain, what the fuck, dude? Oh, Patty says for my own feminization journey, the extent of it is seeing how it feels being called a good girl so much recently.

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Yeah. Sometimes that wonderful feedback loop lets you know that, oh yeah, you’re on the right track. Okay.

So the reason why I’m talking about this has to be something that you actually want and hammering that a little bit harder for this particular show topic. When you’re setting your generalized goals, sometimes, yeah, adulthood does mean that we have to set a goal that is for a thing that we don’t like. For example, dieting and exercise and taking care of your health.

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Ew. Gross. Boring.

What do you mean? No, I have to eat more spinach. But sometimes we have to do certain things that we don’t particularly want to be doing because we want other things that the icky bits lead us to. Hey, Kali has joined us in here.

Hi. Kali had a realization and posted about it in the Enchantrix Empire Discord server. And it was spurred on by me.

The cat says hi. Pretty certain you all heard that. Hi, kitty cat.

Yeah. She’s like, pet me. Patty says, why did I think I’d get away from the indirect call-outs? It serves me right here on Ms. Heartbreak’s Wins exactly how and why I’m doing life wrong.

That’s not on purpose. I’m not doing it deliberately. It’s not aimed or targeted in any way.

I can’t help it if you just do shit wrong. I’m kidding. I’m kidding.

So sometimes people get into the idea of feminization because, you know, if you’re into it for the humiliation, or if you’re into it because mistress said so, or if you’re into it because master said so, whatever reason it was that you got into feminization training. Because let’s be real, there are some kinky motherfuckers out there. I see you.

I recognize you. I make money off of you. I love you.

You’re all great. But sometimes some people, they get into all of this like sissy stuff and feminization because it’s embarrassing, because it feels nice, et cetera, et cetera. And not necessarily because they’re like, oh yeah, this is definitely the lifestyle I want to be living.

They’re into it for as long as they are turned on by it. And as soon as they’re not turned on by it, they’re no longer into it. And that goes for an awful lot of kinks and fetishes.

So when I’m talking about things like feminization training and your feminization training goals, the things that you want to be doing in life, yes, sexual humiliation can absolutely be a part of it. It can be a big part of it. It can be an enormous, hot, sexy.

If your goal is to come so hard you see the face of God, I’m not going to judge. I’m not going to be like, that’s a bad goal. No, that’s a great goal.

That sounds wonderful. But I do want you to be clear about the fact that that’s your goal. Your goal is to come so hard that you see the face of God, right? Your goal isn’t to transition.

Your goal isn’t to pass better. Your goal is whatever the fuck your goal is. So Patty said, I certainly did start because of the humiliation part of it, but eventually I realized it might be kind of nice to be called she and her just like not exclusively in a kink setting.

Yes. Oh, and Callie says of all the podcasts I’ve listened to, I’ve never felt as seen as with Whore School. And the specific episode was 475.

And she also calls out Femdom Fridays, which is a live podcast that we do over on the Enchantrix Empire Discord server. Katie said, as much as I’ve been trying to learn and practice on my own, I still find it challenging to do it and become the best femme version of myself without a mistress or dom to guide me and teach me properly. It’s super common.

Oh, Six Pack doesn’t. Tonight’s topic is not for him. That’s fair.

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It’s super duper common, Katie, for people who, you know, you’re interested in this and you’re like, ah, this is cool, but you aren’t self-driven with it, which is also a thing that often happens to people who are submissive and specific, specifically submissive people who are into interesting lifestyle and or kink and fetish things like feminization training without the external impetus of whatever their mistress or dominatrix or femdom or whatever the masculine versions of any of those is. They don’t have a strong internal drive forward on their own. And this goes for a lot of kinks and fetishes for people who are submissive.

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You’re willing to go along with pretty much anything as long as the mistress says, this is what we’re going to be doing. And when it comes to things like feminization training or cissification or even fucking gender transition, you do need to have at least some internal drive. Just like every time a guy calls and is like, oh, I just want to do whatever you want to do, mistress.

Fabulous. You have to have at least some sort of an opinion about what we’re going to be doing. An opinion, something pro or negative, because otherwise that’s how you wind up calling me and telling me that you’ll do absolutely anything that I want.

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And then I’m going to break out the tentacles for reasons. And if not the tentacles, I have other toys. But it reminds me of a quote that said, you’re not into dominant women because you’re submissive.

It’s because you’re autistic and they are direct with what they want. And I felt so called out. Yeah.

Well, see, most of the time if a guy calls and he’s just like, do anything, mistress. Oh, anything? Great. I want to watch you suck a big dick.

And they’re like, oh, no. All of a sudden I have an idea about what I’m into. Oh, yeah.

I thought that would spur you into having an opinion. From a DS, so a dominance submission standpoint, there are certain parts of feminization training that if I did it to you instead of with you, would be intensely unethical. Say it again.

If I do it to you instead of with you, it’s unethical. For example, some people really, really love the idea of having a mistress just come in and take over and start. To be abundantly clear, this is unethical and I will not do it.

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They want their mistress to give them HRT without their knowledge, informed consent, feedback, none of that. Just surprise. Now you’re going to grow boobies.

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You’re going to get tits, whether you want them or not. That’s unethical. So if that’s your goal, right, your goal is to have somebody come along and transform you against your will.

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Um, not with me. No, not with me. You can go find somebody else who’s going to do that to you.

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But it won’t be myself. Katie said, I fully identify as a girl and I’m still a sissy and I know my goals and how I want to look. Finding a dom who trusts you and, uh, continuously doing it with you is so tricky and hard.

I’ve been searching, going to events for years now. It really is hard. And Kelly said, I think that’s part of the distinction I’ve been able to make between kink and being trans.

Well, trans people are incredibly kinky. Hey Addie. Supine Turtle and Explore Uranus have both joined us.

Great usernames. Nice. So, um, Explore Uranus, like, completely shot my ability to focus.

Like it’s gone now. There’s no more. Hmm.

It’s reminding me of an inside joke from Femdom Fridays about Becky. Anyways, she likes to explore Uranus. So trans people can be incredibly kinky.

The DS dynamic when added on top of everything else often, um, messes with you. It adds a layer of complexity and it makes exploring your, your desires and your gender and all of this fun stuff. It makes it a little bit more tricky.

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Kelly said, I grew up with boomer conservative parents. So kink is how I first encountered gender identity stuff. You are not alone.

It occasionally still crops up in online spaces, but there’s an idea called autogynephilia that, um, it’s basically that. Okay. So it’s a concept that was put forward by some therapists who deserve to be spanked with wet spaghetti noodles.

Um, autogynephilia was brought forward by therapists and psychologists and has been thoroughly debunked by this point because it was put forward as the, an idea that invalidated trans identities. Autogynephilia is, uh, basically the, the idea that people are into cross-dressing because it’s turns them on. It is being trans for sexual purposes as if being trans because you’re horny for it is bad.

It’s not, it’s not a bad thing. And also sometimes when people are experiencing gender euphoria and they happen to have a body capable of having an erection, they have an erection. It’s not that wearing women’s clothing turns them on.

It’s that looking in a mirror and seeing themselves as they really, really, really, really want to be right. That causes a feeling of euphoria within our bodies, which is sometimes expressed as a boner, which is a neutral thing, by the way. So autogynephilia was used to discredit people who were seeking transition by saying, if you’ve ever put on a dress and gotten erect, it means that you only have autogynephilia and you’re not really trans.

And that let me be abundantly clear is absolute bullshit. Trans people sometimes experience gender euphoria in such a way that it results in erections. So, uh-huh.

Callie says the auto stuff is part of the narrative that made me doubt for so long. Yep. And it got really, really popular on the internet.

It got spread around a whole lot and people were like, well, here’s this fancy official sounding name that sounds like it’s, you know, the thing. And I’ve, there are, Whore School’s been around for a while, for a hot minute. So I have also done an episode on autogynephilia in which I express my personal opinion that it was, as I say, bullshit.

Because it’s bullshit. Yeah. Patty said, wasn’t that concept in Silence of the Lambs? The main antagonist was someone autogynephilia.

While Bill, the Bill character. Yeah. From the Silence of the Lambs books and also the movies.

Yup. That guy. And it’s been used for literal decades in order to invalidate trans identities.

So don’t worry about it if you get turned on when you put on a dress or sexy panties. Sometimes a boner is just a boner. Other times the boner is a sign that, hey girl, how you doing? Katie says, you’d think if you discover you’re trans, the sissy stuff and how it turns you on would go away.

But it’s as strong as ever. And I still get super horny fantasizing and watching sissy videos. And I fully identify as a girl.

Yeah. It’s because the first thing that you, you spend a fair chunk of your life figuring out, hey, how do I masturbate? How do I get myself off reliably? What works for me? What is the thing that boom, instant boner, instant wet, instant and works. And then it doesn’t matter what the rest of your body is doing.

It doesn’t matter what your hormones are doing. It doesn’t matter what your actual physical body is currently shaped like. The fantasies and the thoughts and the ideas and the concepts are still going to work.

It’s still going to turn you on because your brain is your largest sexual organ. And the fantasies are what’s going to still get you go on and work for you. It does not invalidate your identity.

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It doesn’t. So goals be clear about what your feminization goal is. Oh, Patty says you’re telling me even if I theoretically get a surgery to replace things, I’d still have sexual fantasies about having a pussy? Theoretically, of course.

Yep. You would. Because if that’s the fantasy that works for you, then that’s the fantasy that works for you.

I have had post-op trans women call me because they’re like, do a coerced feminization fantasy for me because it’s what works and I desperately want to get off. And they’re like, yeah, I know. I’m a woman.

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I have a pussy. I’ve got titties. I have a boyfriend.

Trick me into wearing panties. Because it works. Callie says blush.

Yes. If it works, it works. And it has absolutely no correlation whatsoever to whatever is actually physically inside your panties or boxers.

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Fantasy is fantasy. It does not matter what your current mode of address or identity or legal gender marker is. None of that matters.

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Not when it comes to fantasy. I have fantasies in which I have tentacles. So doesn’t matter.

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Does not matter. Katie says I’m a lesbian. Almost 100%.

But all the sissy captions and sucking cock gets me super horny because of the extreme dysphoria and how it makes me feel more femme and like a girl. Kelly said one of the first art pieces I ever saw and can’t forget was about dominant women kidnapping a guy and feminizing them. And I’ve never been able to forget it.

Yes. Especially if it’s something that you like kind of imprinted on. Right? Like if it was something that was really formative, really impactful and like burrowed into your brain.

Hell yeah. That’s the goodness right there. That’s what we want.

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Kelly says also selling them to other dominant women. Yeah. Fantasy doesn’t always have to align with things that are truly 100% ethical.

It’s a fantasy. Sometimes our fantasies are spicy. And oftentimes the hottest DS scenarios are kinky.

Very kinky. As long as you start off happy, relatively sane, mostly risk aware, and fairly consensual, we can have a fantasy that involves the very opposite of that. Sure.

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The chat is must be discussing Wonder Woman. Because the author of Wonder Woman was kinky as shit. Yeah.

Kylie says, I always look at my books as the things you fantasize about, while you do BDSM the safe, sane and consensual way. Yeah, what’s happening inside your head doesn’t have to be the same as what’s happening in reality. Fantasy is fabulous.

So much fun. So good. Okay, so you have decided that you want to take your feminization and your training to a whole new level, right? What’s your goal? Start by exploring those fantasies.

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What’s the endpoint look like? What? What’s the goal? What do you want? And sometimes, yeah, it’s going to take a little bit of work and effort in order to figure out exactly what your goal is. Where do you want to wind up? Because not everybody wants to, you know, ultimately transition and live your life as a woman. Some people, they’re like, you know what, I’m relatively happy in the physical body that I currently have.

Not everyone has to experience dysphoria. Hey, Dakota Cowboy has joined us in the chat room. And he says, can my goal be time travel? I have several elaborate fantasies that involve time travel.

Of course, my time travel fantasies also involve a hit list. So lo these many years ago, dysphoria used to be kind of a hallmark of transness, that you have to hate the body that you’re currently in and wish to completely physically explore and transition into another gender. Otherwise, you’re not really trans.

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Nowadays? Yeah, you don’t have to hate yourself in order to be trans. That’s a really medicalized and shitty version of demanding that people be in pain before we give them Dakota says, oh, wow, wrong show. Whoops.

See, now I want to know which show he thought it was. But so you don’t have to hate yourself. You don’t have to hate your body.

You don’t even really have to do anything about your gender or whatever the fuck is going on. Right? He says, I have a coerced feminization time travel strategy where dominant women in ancient Rome make me remove my toga and put on an identical woman’s toga. I like a chiton.

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Patty said, I like, I enjoy being called a girl, but like, also, I’m all good being a guy. So I’m definitely in the it’s just a fetish camp for quite some time. Allow me to introduce you to the wonderful world of the gender non-binary folks.

Come to the non-binary side. It’s fun over here. Feel free to call me sir.

I really will start laughing the evil laugh if you do that. Ooh, wants it. Yes, sir.

Good. What you may want to do is spend a little time with a journal and an awful lot of people who come to me for, so I’m a life coach, right? And they come to me for help with realizing whatever their goals are. There’s homework.

You’re going to get a journal of some sort and it can be on your phone. Sure. Um, it’s I’m, I’m a stickler for the old fashioned.

I prefer paper and pen, but you know, okay, sure. You can type it on a note in your phone. I’m just going to sigh about it because it’s weird.

Anyways, you’re going to write it out. You’re going to write out what your goal is, what it looks like in a fair amount of detail. I want like at least 300 words on where do you see yourself in one year, in five years, in 10 years? Where are we going with this? Not, okay, what’s the plan for a session for next week? No, no, no, no.

What are your actual goals? Long-term. And it may be easier to think about this in terms of where do you want to be in 10 years? Where do you want to be in five years? Where do you want to be next year? And thinking about it in those sorts of terms can make it a little bit easier for you to kind of break it down and get into it. Apparently Kali is wearing a sissy pink chastity cage.

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Patty said, if it’s full sentences, I physically can’t write it. You can do bullet points. And he said, stay in your lane, Harper.

Thinking about life in general is way harder. And Katie says, that’s the thing. I know where I want to be.

I’m just so far from it. Well, the first step is to figure out where do you want to be? And then we start working on a timeline and we break down whatever your goal is into pieces, into steps. And we give each step a time limit for when to attain it, right? When do you want it by? Katie said, I write them on my phone and journal apps.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I’m just so old fashioned that I really love a journal. I like a journal.

Katie said, I just want to be trained. So you’re going to write out kind of, it’s not even really a goal at this point. It’s more like a mission statement.

Where are you going? What is the end goal? Some people’s end goal is, in five years time, I want a live-in mistress slash girlfriend who is helping me with my feminization transition. And I want a better job. And I want to be saving up for a down payment on a house.

Whatever your goal is. Dream big. Fantasy.

What’s your goal? What’s your life going to look like? How are we going to get from here, wherever you are right now, to where do you want to be if you don’t know where you want to be? And it’s your goal. See, Addy said, I wish I knew what works for me. Time limits alone just make me anxious, but I still ignore them.

Well, in that case, then we wouldn’t even do a time limit. It wouldn’t be this must be done by this time. It would be, you break it down into something even easier.

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So if your goal is, so for example, if your goal is, I want to save $5,000 in a year. Okay, that’s easy. So you need to save $2,500 in six months.

And that’s going to wind up being, watch as I completely fail to be able to do math in my head. So you’re going to be putting like $420 per month away. So we’re just going to assume that you’re going to put $110 per week.

That’s pretty easy, right? You can do that. Months at $420. Callie said, I have two major goals I need to break down into specifics.

First, get a feminine appearance. And second, I want to have a feminine sounding voice. Feminine voice training is absolutely a thing that you can do and you can work on it.

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Because at this point, if you’ve had testosterone in your body, testosterone lowers the voice, estrogen does not raise it. So in order to get your voice to go higher, you’re basically going to be working on training yourself to just automatically speak with a higher tone of voice. It involves kind of making it into a habit to tighten up your throat and speak in a higher and higher tone of voice until you reach the tone that you’d like to be at all of the time.

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So as you can see, I can sound as if I’m speaking very, very high. That’s not my normal tone of voice. Daddy’s like, where did Miss Harper go? I know, right? Um, as a professional voice actress, though, I do know how to do that.

So feminine sounding voice, done. That’s easy. Feminine appearance.

Great. That’s going to be a combination of things. Start with your clothes.

Because that’s the easiest thing to change. After that, undergarments. It’s amazing what shapewear can do for you.

And if you want deeper changes, then we’re going to be talking to, you’re going to have to go talk to your general practitioner and tell them, I would like to start feminizing hormones. They’re going to put you on a androgen blocker, which blocks testosterone, and then you’re going to get estrogen and possibly also progesterone. Easy peasy.

Tina said, you’re a professional voice actor too? Yes. The phone sex stuff. I don’t, like, it’s acting.

I don’t want to shock you or anything, but it’s acting. I can sound like I’m like super horny all the time. Also, yes.

I’ve taken like voice acting classes because I want to be good at what I do. Okay. Once you know where you want to be.

Lots of do you do impressions? No. No, I’m terrible at that. I’ve tried.

It’s, it’s not good. Kylie says, I can sound like I’m super horny all the time, but that’s because I’m a guy and I am. I can sound like I’m really, really horny for money.

So you make, lay out your fantasies, lay out your perfect idealized dream version of who you want to be, where you want to be, and then start thinking in terms of how can I break that in half? What’s the halfway point, right? Whatever your goal is, what is halfway to it look like? And you’re going to want to set your goals and your metrics and your little benchmarks that you’re going to reach so that you know that you’re still on track to be very, very attainable and very easy for you to do so that I want to save $5,000 goal, right? If you discover that you just don’t have an extra $110 per week to set aside, like you’re, you get in a car accident and now you have to, your car payment’s going to go up. Change your goal. Now, instead of saving your $5,000 in one year, you’re going to save $5,000 in two years and you’re only going to put aside $55 per month or whatever is sustainable for you.

So if you want to appear more feminine, buying a brand new wardrobe can be a little bit expensive. Go to a thrift store, you know, scale back a little bit, scale down just a touch so that you’re still making forward progress towards your goal, but not at the expense of like being able to buy food. Patty said the best thing to do in that situation is spend a bunch of money on a life coach after not having the resources to save.

Yeah, a lot of people do that and you shouldn’t. There’s no regulatory agency for life coaching. Like a lot of the people who are like, I’m a life coach.

It’s an online certification. You’re like, just call me for phone sacks and we’ll discuss your life and where your goals want to be. I’ll help you break it all down.

(43:10 – 43:41)
And then you can have an orgasm. Like, Hey, Kelly says I need to work on my health in general, but I need to look into exercises for a more feminine appearance. I don’t know if they’re really exercises for a more feminine appearance.

They’re exercises for like increasing your health. Cardio is great. Patty says that’s what the whole reason I think the whole field is bogus.

(43:42 – 44:16)
No, the whole field is not bogus. Some people are fraudsters, but that goes for a whole bunch of stuff. A life coach can be incredibly helpful if the particular coach that you’re talking to knows their shit.

So like, if you wanted to start a business, don’t talk to me about that. I don’t know anything about starting a business. Wrong coach for that.

I would suck at that. I’d be like, well, you need a business plan. That’s the extent of the assistance I can give you because I don’t fucking know.

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But you want to make a plan for your transition? Oh shit. Yeah, that I can help you with. You want to make a plan for stretching your ass so that you can take your mistress’s entire arm? Yep.

(44:36 – 49:09)
I can do that. Starting a business? Ew. I can’t do that.

So it depends on which coach you’re going to. Addie says that there are feminizing exercises. There’s content made by trans women focused on feminization exercises.

I’m not sure how effective those would be because I do follow a fair number of just like fitness people. Addie says you can take an entire arm? No, but I have shoved my arm someplace. I can’t take an entire arm.

I can give. I have small hands. You’re welcome.

What? Said what? Yep. Way too amused by that. Kelly said I’ve been looking into more trans femme-friendly clothing stores in the US.

Depends on the style that you want. Go for the style that you want, the look you want to have, and just shop at women’s clothing stores. Places like Hobby Lobby, Lane Bryant, obviously, Torrid.

Torrid has plus sizes that will go all the way up to fairly large. So if you’re a more masculine dude who’s fairly tall and fairly broad, plus sizes are your friend. And always check the size guide online when you’re shopping so that you don’t be like, well, I wear a size medium in men’s.

Yeah, you don’t wear a medium in women’s. No, it would be extra large or a 2X in women’s for an M in uh men’s, depending on the brand, because every brand has a different fucking size. Anyways, so yes, you can definitely find women’s clothing in larger sizes.

I love a good thrift store, girl. Find a thrift store that’s in like a really nice area because they have the better clothing. Like, if it’s a thrift store that’s located close to a rich neighborhood, oh, you’re gonna get some good clothes.

Try everything on. Patty says, yeah, my 6’3 ass. I’m pretty sure some women’s clothes don’t ever come in sizes that’ll fit me at all.

Torrid, go online and look at Torrid in the plus sizes. Hobby or not, oh my god, not Hobby Lobby. Good grief, brain.

Never shop at Hobby Lobby. Ew, Hot Topic. Hot Topic has some cute, like, if you’re into the goth emo look, they have some cute girl stuff and their plus sizes are large.

I have friends who are trans and I have friends who are just, they’re not small ladies and that’s where they get their stuff. I’m slender, but not super short. I’m 5’6, so I also shop.

Torrid, Hot Topic. God. Lane Bryant, their clothing skews a little bit older, so if you want to look like a church lady, Lane Bryant.

Hot Topic, goth emo stuff, very scene kid. Torrid, really trendy. So that’s where you go.

That’s the good stuff. Yeah, for makeup, YouTube. YouTube makeup tutorials are the best because you can search out exactly the look that you want, you can see multiple people doing it, and you can pause it and watch.

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Patty says, Hot Topic is where I got my first and only sex toys. Girl, shop online. Fuck, I get all my sex toys online.

Adam and Eve, Lovin’s, Tantus are where I shop. Patty says, I can’t. They ship to Canada.

Come on. She says, whatever, it’s no big deal. Oh, that’s not the issue? You deserve good sex toys.

You absolutely deserve good sex toys. I’m not saying that Hot Topic has shitty sex toys. I’m just saying, I know where the really good ones are.

Oh no, just go rent a P.O. box. There’s places you can rent a P.O. box for just a week or a month, and it shouldn’t be too much. Just get a post office box and then you can get your stuff sent to you.

And Kylie says, Lovin’s is amazing. I won’t tell you how many Lovin’s toys I have, because it’s more than one. It’s more than two.

It’s more than three. Tina says, the Amazon locker room. Yep.

Yeah. There’s workarounds. I got you, boo.

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We’ll get you the good sex toys. Whatever it is. So, okay.

Step one for feminization training. Make your goals fit your fantasies like you’re where you want to be. Good sex toys online.

Well, the remote control ones with the really good motors are Lovin’s. Lovin’s. For platinum cured silicone, Tantus.

It’s woman owned, woman operated. I love their toys. They have great toys.

They also carry, for those of you who are trans and are contemplating a bottom surgery, Tantus has platinum cured silicone training dildos, basically. They’re for… Tantus ink. Good, clean, fun.

God, I love them. Toys. So dildos.

All dildos. Where the hell are they? They’re the plain, no, nothing. They have nothing on them.

They’re just for… Here we go. The silks. They’re just for folks who have had bottom surgery and they need have the retainer as an example.

I’m going to drop a link in there. Bloop. Silk from Tantus.

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Because you need to have the retaining dildo for post surgery so that you can basically retrain your body to always have a hole. Does that make sense? They have those, but they also have a whole bunch of really great dildos. Ooh, out of stock.

Oh, you fuckers. Anyway, there was a kit with all three sizes, so that’s nice. They’ve got prostate dildos.

They’ve got… I’ve got a bunch of dildos and I really, really like them. And he’s like, see, I want you to break my bank. Also, look at their clearance section because they always have stuff on the clearance and it’ll be usually an ugly color or something like that.

And we were like, well, that’s hideous and I don’t like it. So you could do this by price. So you can set your upper limit and be like, I don’t want to spend more than $40.

Okay. So… Escorting Packer. Nice.

The Sport is for $39. Mini Magma. The Silk Compact for $31.

The Starter Dildo for $31. Tsunami Vibrator. Ooh, it’s currently on sale.

Half off. Damn. Shit, I need to go shopping.

No, I don’t. Yeah, I think they are a U.S. company. Also check, like, Adam and Eve because they definitely have international shipping.

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That gets you some good sex toys. Something fun. Something that you’ll really like.

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Okay. So dream big for your goals. What does your fantasy life look like? You cannot work towards something if you don’t know what the fuck it is.

Like, you have to have a vision in your mind of where you’re going before we can even begin to start trying to figure out how to get there from here. Because the only way to get from here to where you want to go… Like, if you walk up to me and you’re like, I need directions. Great.

Where would you like directions to? I don’t know. Well then, I don’t know either. I don’t know.

How am I going to give you directions to… I don’t know. Watson, start from the start. Start with what you want.

What’s the dream? Dream big. And even if it turns out that whatever the fuck it is that you’re dreaming of is truly impossible and you’re not going to get there. It’s never ever going to happen.

It is impossible. That’s highly unlikely because humans are really fucking adaptable. If your goal is, I want to have luscious natural triple d titties.

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Okay, that’s not very super duper likely. It depends. What do the other women in your family look like? Do they have big boobs? If yes, then hey, maybe.

If no, the natural part of your description is going to be more difficult because I think we’re going to have to do a surgical intervention. And then you can get really, really big tits. How big do you want them? Like, you can have a boob job.

Boob job. We can make you a big boobied goddess. Hell yes.

It’s just going to take a little time and it’s going to take a little effort and it’s going to take surgery. But don’t worry because we can get you what you want. You want a Brazilian butt lift? Fuck yes.

You want full feminizing facial surgery? Yes. Absolutely. We can do that.

You want to have a pussy? Yep. It’ll look like a pussy. It’s a pussy.

Like labia. Labia major. Labia minor.

You’re going to have a clit. Yep. You want your pussy to be wet? Yeah, we can do that too.

There’s some amazing things that they’re doing with bottom surgery these days. It’s pretty great. Do you want to have a pussy and a dick? Yeah, sure.

Why not? You can do that too. Absolutely. It won’t be very deep.

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Your pussy might have to take some skin maybe off of your thigh. But yeah, we can do that. Sissy Addie said, what? And Patty’s like, wait, what? Yeah, you can do that.

You can absolutely have surgery to give you a vagina and keep your dick. Yes. It’s not one or the other.

You can have both if you want. Yep. Patty’s like, big eyes.

Dream big, baby doll. What do you want? And then we’ll work on, okay, here’s the practicalities for how to get what you want. Dream big.

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A whole bunch of the chat is now like, wait, both? I can do that? I know, right? If I was willing to sacrifice my voice and start taking testosterone, I could have bottom growth and then have a dick. It wouldn’t be very big, but I could grow a penis, but my voice would drop. I don’t know how I would feel about that part.

But anyhow, so Whore School is adult sex education with occasional forays into things like, I don’t know, life coaching and interesting combinations of genitalia. Please remember that we have a pretty bad flu going around. If you have not yet gotten your flu vaccination, you might want to jump on that.

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And please wear a mask when you’re around people that you don’t live with, por favor. It is never too late to start masking. Again, COVID is still out there, that bitch.

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If you engage in risky sex, make sure to take PrEP. It prevents the transmission of HIV, and that’s a good thing. Thank you guys for listening.

Whore School is adult sex education. No fear, no shame, no guilt. Embrace your kinks.

Embrace your fantasies. Go for it, bitches. Thank you guys for listening.

Wash your ass. And I will see you all again next week. Good night.

 

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